--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > It isn't just sloppiness by any means, although that's > certainly a factor. The major problem is his deliberate > disregard for accuracy and penchant for intentional > misrepresentation. >
Yah, that is what I meant/included (in my mind) when I used the term *sloppiness.* > Going back to your earlier question, how long would > *you* continue to correct repeated deliberate > misrepresentations of your behavior and beliefs? > Would you eventually just give up and allow the > person to lie about you freely? > Yup, that is exactly what I would do. Have you noticed that Michael Dean Goodman gets criticized for his posts and he, as near as I can recall, has never once reacted. I think (but what do I know!?) it would be a major departure into growth if you were able to stop reacting to Barry. I mean we all know/can predict how every interaction involving you two is going to go. It's tiresome. It's pointless, except to you two. > > You might not be interested in taking a writing class and learning > > how to really say what you want to say in a very precise way, maybe > > that wouldn't suit your style, but you do seem very chameleonlike > > in your posts, always kinda sorta changing your pt of view. > > This last is actually a tactic. The goal is to score > points by dumping on somebody else and/or exalting > himself. The context and content are irrelevant; > whatever position achieves this goal in any given > exchange is the one he'll take, regardless of whether > it conflicts with what he said the day before, or even > the post before (sometimes even the paragraph before, > in the very same post). > > And when called on this, he'll exalt himself as someone > who isn't bound by the petty strictures of consistency > (as the person who called him on it is, natch). > > It's a scam, one he's been running for the ten-plus > years I've known him. > > > > > > > > > > You seem to go out of your way to provoke Judy knowing full well > that > > if you say things a certain way it's going to cause her to respond > > then you, etc. It's a very strange dynamic, one that should cause > us > > all to view the dynamics as if we were looking in a mirror-how would > > we compare to this. I know it's done that for me, caused me to look > at > > just how knee-jerk my reactions are in some of my relationships. > Like > > i will not allow people to be viewed any differently by me, I look > for > > reasons to attack them. > > > > That's how Judy appears to me in your regard and you appear to go > out > > of your way to provide a target. > ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Join modern day disciples reach the disfigured and poor with hope and healing http://us.click.yahoo.com/lMct6A/Vp3LAA/i1hLAA/UlWolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
