--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:> > Just to reiterate, I have not the slightest intention > of refraining from commenting on Barry's posts when I > have something to say about them. That would be absurd. > It's absurd that *he* has to refrain from commenting on > *my* posts.snipette What would end the "feud" is if he were to be honest and fair in his posts--not just about me but in general-- > and make an effort to maintain objectivity and refrain > from insults.
1.Judy, you cannot change Barry's behavior (whether he is honest and fair or not, I do not know, nor care). Your replies do not change his behavior in any way. Even after all these (10?) years of trying, you seem to agree that Barry has not changed in the ways you want him to. YOU WILL NEVER NEVER CHANGE BARRY - GET IT??? 2. No one else here on FFL feels they need protection from Barry and his "dishonesty." We are all adults and can decide for ourselves whether to believe BArry, take him seriously, or even read his posts. Your ideas and intellect are good, but being the FFL monitor of truth and honesty is not needed. People are getting fedup. Even if Barry "lies" about something, most people don't really care much. Eg: There is so much else in life to do and think about - Barry is not my reference point and anything said here on FFL by someone I don't have a face to face relationship with or else know to be compatible with me is not "really" important. You are wasting your time, your hours, and your days if you are correcting Barry's posts for anyone's sake but your own. Editing is your profession, I think? And perhaps you really cannot stop yourelf. If so, email Barry or spairegg on the side if you cannot bear to stop, but FFL folks have spoken clearly and kindly - many have asked you to stop this aspect of your posting. EDIT YOUR OWN POSTS, PLEASE! > It isn't a matter of "letting go of the past" when the > behavior of the past continues in the present. You will not change Barry!!! The "behavior" of Barry's, as you see it, will always continue. Will yours? To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
