--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "wayback71" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <jstein@> > wrote:> > > Just to reiterate, I have not the slightest intention > > of refraining from commenting on Barry's posts when I > > have something to say about them. That would be absurd. > > It's absurd that *he* has to refrain from commenting on > > *my* posts.snipette What would end the "feud" is if he were to be > honest and fair in his posts--not just about me but in general-- > > and make an effort to maintain objectivity and refrain > > from insults. > > 1.Judy, you cannot change Barry's behavior (whether he is honest and > fair or not, I do not know, nor care). Your replies do not change > his behavior in any way. Even after all these (10?) years of trying, > you seem to agree that Barry has not changed in the ways you want > him to. YOU WILL NEVER NEVER CHANGE BARRY - GET IT??? > > 2. No one else here on FFL feels they need protection from Barry > and his "dishonesty." We are all adults and can decide for > ourselves whether to believe BArry, take him seriously, or even read > his posts. Your ideas and intellect are good, but being the FFL > monitor of truth and honesty is not needed. People are getting > fedup. Even if Barry "lies" about something, most people don't > really care much. Eg: There is so much else in life to do and think > about - Barry is not my reference point and anything said here on > FFL by someone I don't have a face to face relationship with or else > know to be compatible with me is not "really" important. You are > wasting your time, your hours, and your days if you are correcting > Barry's posts for anyone's sake but your own. Editing is your > profession, I think? And perhaps you really cannot stop yourelf. > If so, email Barry or spairegg on the side if you cannot bear to > stop, but FFL folks have spoken clearly and kindly - many have asked > you to stop this aspect of your posting. EDIT YOUR OWN POSTS, PLEASE! > > > It isn't a matter of "letting go of the past" when the > > behavior of the past continues in the present. > > You will not change Barry!!! The "behavior" of Barry's, as you see > it, will always continue. Will yours? >
Judy is an editor. It is her nature to correct. Barry is a... whatever he is. Why ask Judy to change and not Barry? To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
