--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "shempmcgurk" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <jstein@> > wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "shempmcgurk" <shempmcgurk@> > > wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <jstein@> > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "curtisdeltablues" > > > > <curtisdeltablues@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > "> Enjoying pain implies empathy, just inverted." > > > > > > > > > > No. That is not how they are processing it according to > this > > > > > author. A sadist may operate the way you describe, from > empathy. > > > > > But the result is that sociopaths experience pleasure in > > > tormenting > > > > > others as if it is a game and they are winning. Are you > arguing > > > > > points from a book you haven't read? > > > > > > > > I believe he was commenting on what *you* said, > > > > actually: "Wherever they are they take delight > > > > in tormenting people." You did read the book, > > > > right? > > > > > > > > Also Sal's remark (although she hasn't read the > > > > book): > > > > > > > > "Right, most just live for the thrill of > > > > tormenting others, in either petty or much > > > > larger ways, whatever they can get away with." > > > > > > > > Neither of these characterizations shows up in > > > > any of the material I've read about sociopathy. > > > > > > > > To the extent that sociopaths "torment" people, > > > > they do it as a way of getting something they > > > > want from them; they don't do it just for the > > > > fun of it. The "delight" is in getting what they > > > > wanted, not in seeing the other person in pain. > > > > That was Lawson's point, I think. > > > > > > You seem to know the field well. > > > > I've done quite a bit of reading in psychology, yes. > > I was thinking more of the experiential level of knowing.
I thought perhaps you were. Probably be a good idea for *you* to do some reading in psychology. To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
