Thank you Marylyn for the sage advice. I did not take offense at all; rather, I'm happy that you took time to help. I have been sounding whiny about this whole thing, so quieting myself might be for the best for both of us. Thank you for your kindness Marylyn.
:) Wendy --- Marylyn <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > First, quieten yourself. You are trying to force > the issue. Cricket will > visit when it is time. You want it so badly you are > closing yourself up > instead of being open. > > Second, when you have quietened yourself, sit and > talk aloud to Cricket. > Ask him to visit you in your dreams. He will. He > has been trying but you > are not letting him in. > > I am not fussing at you and I understand exactly > what you are going thru. > Please take this kindly. It is meant that way. > > > > > > > If > you have men who will > exclude any of God's creatures > > from the shelter of > compassion and pity, you will have men who > > will deal likewise with > their fellow man. > > St. > Francis > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "wendy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: <felvtalk@felineleukemia.org> > Sent: Tuesday, January 17, 2006 10:26 AM > Subject: OT: Dreams > > > > Hi guys, > > > > I wanted to ask everyone's opinions/thoughts on > > dreaming about kitties you have lost. I know it's > OT, > > but I have a hard enough time keeping up with the > > posts here, so joining the OT list is not an > option > > for me time-wise. > > > > Since Cricket has passed, I have continued to look > for > > signs from him letting me know he's ok. The best > I > > have gotten is a dismembered cricket that my other > two > > kitties left by my bed a day or so after he > passed, > > which was weird because I haven't seen any other > > crickets anywhere, inside or out this year. > > > > A couple of nights ago, I dreamed I was walking > around > > everywhere calling for Cricket. I couldn't find > him > > anywhere and kept finding myself in all these > > different places. Rolling hillsides, snow-covered > > forests, places I didn't recognize. The dream was > so > > real. And all I did was call for Cricket the > whole > > time, like I used to when he would sneak out of > the > > backyard when I wasn't paying attention so he > could > > explore the neighborhood. "Crickeeee, Crickeee," > over > > and over and over. I started panicking in my > dream, > > and of course when I woke up, I got upset because > I > > knew the reason I couldn't find him in my dream > was > > that he was dead. It really disturbed me. > > > > Apparently, I still need closure. I still have > guilt > > over Cricket's passing, even though I know the > facts. > > I am disappointed that I haven't seen or heard > > something that lets me know he's ok and that he > isn't > > mad at me. Do you guys have any idea what that > dream > > meant, and also, what's a good way for me to get > > closure as I think about it a lot? > > > > Thanks for any advice or thoughts you have, > > :) > > Wendy > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > Do You Yahoo!? > > Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam > protection around > > http://mail.yahoo.com > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com
