Hi Michelle, It breaks my heart to read of all you and Lucy are going through. I am so sorry. I will look for my paperwork on Ally to pinpoint her timeline, but as I remember, it was roughly something as follows:
Live trapped at 6 weeks, sores on tongue, URI, eyes gunked shut, 14 oz. -10 days Amox? for URI, gentamycin for eyes 7 weeks: gained 1/2 pound, eyes clear, URI apparently gone -received first vaccines, (in retrospect, a mistake) test FeLV+ Next 2-3 weeks: finishes 10 day course of Amox., URI returns Switch to Clavamox, URI returns whenever we try to stop it. Eyes remain clean and healthy. 8 or 9 weeks: Notice scattering of teensy black dots in left ear. I rub them off and they don't return. Not earmites. I think it was the FIP putting holes in her capillaries. The next day her other ear is bright red. Vet gives panalog ointment, it does little to help. Appetite starts to lessen. Activity does too, but I don't notice at first because she just seems less aggresive, still very alert and bright-eyed. 10-12 weeks: Appetite and weight gain bad enough that I am syringe- feeding, although some days she does eat on her own. Spikes a high fever (106?) which comes down with steroids from the vet. I notice her belly swelling slightly at about 10.5 weeks, mention it to the vet, who doesn't see it. I start asking questions about FIP before the vet mentions it. She wants to do steroids and wait and see. Fever returns, doesn't respond as well to steroids or antibiotics. She goes between "fever eyes" and feeling better. Spends a lot of time cuddling (for warmth?) and purring. Belly develops a classic FIP look over the weekend. When the fever is down, she doesn't appear to be suffering, but when it is up, she looks terrible. Weight gain is just from fluid, anorexia is now apparent, spine protrudes in knobs from her back. I spent most of her last nite holding her on my chest, took her in when the vet opened for pts. She was in that inward "fever stare" and didn't seem aware of her surroundings. I will have to look at my records to see exactly what she was getting at the vets, she may have had a vitamin B shot at the first fever, along with prednisolone, but I'm not sure. I think that from the time her belly first looked swollen to me, to the end was only about 1.5 to 2 weeks. Your Lucy is bigger and stronger and has had much more knowledgeable care from you, she seems to be hanging in there better. I think I have read that FOI works better for wet FIP than for dry, I am so hoping that that is the case for Lucy. As far as making her comfortable, I don't think the big belly is painful for them, but the fevers make them feel awful. Controlling those as best you can and giving her a choice of warm and cool places to lay (as you have been) seems to me to be the most comforting thing you can do. And letting her curl-up on top of you when she wants. The amount of care and devotion you have shown to her through the IBD problems has been an inspiration to me. I hope that I can muster something like the same strength when my Will starts to have problems. I wish like anything you were not going through this. Hugs, Beth