Actually, there are two quite famous "families" that get lots of airtime on Lifetime that have over 12 CHILDREN in their home. They OFTEN get asked if they take proper care of them all, get accused of all kinds of things simply because they have more kids than society deems acceptable. So, it happens with kids too. Here's what they get in any typical outing with 10 or more kids in tow (and some suggested come backs maybe you could use for your cats too, LOL): http://www.plomp.com/largefam/comebacks.htm
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