Nick,

  My point is that there are things we do not want to be public that are not 
illegal nor shameful.  An example of such a thing is a behavior or statement 
that seems to contradict one's relationship with another human.  It's perfectly 
reasonable, but that other human can and frequently does feel emotional pain if 
they find out about it.  Another example was brought up in the thread of how 
humans manipulate their social environment to prevent social pressure or 
improve their social situation.

  BTW, I find it interesting if not ironic that the very systems that allow for 
ubiquitous surveillance are the same systems that allow for indiscriminate 
self-exposure - computers.  Here's a prediction - someday there will be an app 
that will turn off surveillance cameras as one passes by them.  That may be a 
black-market app - but it will exist.  It's harder but not impossible to do the 
same for UAVs/RPAs/regular aircraft.  The hardest type of surveillance to turn 
off is satellite - but it's also the easiest to predict.

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On Jan 17, 2013, at 12:12 PM, Nicholas Thompson wrote:

Sorry.  I wasn’t asking whether we lie or not.  Or even whether it eases some 
social situations.  I was asking for a theory of why lying greases social 
situations.  Why is the NET effect of small lies positive?  I can think of some 
reasons.  Like chimpanzees, we live in a fision-fusion situation.  The size of 
the lie that one can “honestly” tell probably depends in many cases on the 
frequency with which one sees the person one is lying to.   And then there is 
the distinction between speech as stroking and speech as conveying of 
information.  I get that wrong, a lot.

I am having a hard time thinking how this is related to my original question 
about whether there should be a law against using public data to track 
individual behavior.  I know that I opened up the subthread about shame and 
guilt, so I stipulate that it is my fault that we are talking about it.  And I 
actually think it is related.  I just can’t state the relation.   I am thinking 
we might be moving toward a belief that truth is like arousal … life goes best 
when one has a moderate level of it.  There was a wonderful study done some 
years ago about he relation between truth and the best marriages.  Married folk 
were asked to play The Dating Game together …. i.e., guess what spouses answers 
to personal questions would be, preferences, what have you.  Three categories 
of respondents were identified: spouse pairs that had an unrealistical enhanced 
view of one another, spouse pairs that had an unrealistically jaundiced view of 
one another, and spouse pairs that had a realistic view of one another.  As you 
might expect, the first group maintained the most enduring marriages.

But this just brings me back to the need for a theory of why a society is 
better is there is just a bit less truth in it.  A pragmatic notion, but not, I 
fear, a Pragmatic one.

Nick

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