Yes an beforehand he decided to pull people up for doing things that he himself was doing, sorry that's just double standards and I have no tolerance for that.
After all said and done like I have said before we have choices. -----Original Message----- From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On Behalf Of Damien C. Pendleton Sent: 20 July 2011 13:29 To: Gamers Discussion list Subject: Re: [Audyssey] To all members Darren, This is no laughing matter. He is being pressured and harassed on and off lists, which can make anybody break under the strain. If one person breaks, it can affect their mood, and their mood can affect those around them. It then becomes a tense atmosphere until the pressured person finally snaps and spends more time pandering to the whims of the pressuring situation, at which point the atmosphere becomes cold as well as tense. And under that sort of atmosphere, anyone can snap, including relationships. Trust me, it has happened to me. Not exactly through game development, but through other situations around me. So please don't make false accusations or assumptions about Thomas guilt tripping, or laugh about it. Thomas is a very reasonable guy and I'm sure he wouldn't just say something to guilt trip anyone. I've seen his activity for five years roughly now, and he is a firm but fair character. But he would never flame anyone. He had his opinions, but they came in the form of constructive criticism rather than downright flaming. Regards, Damien. ----- Original Message ----- From: "darren harris" <darren_g_har...@btinternet.com> To: "'Gamers Discussion list'" <gamers@audyssey.org> Sent: Wednesday, July 20, 2011 1:17 PM Subject: Re: [Audyssey] To all members > Lol don't be silly, nobody can destroy a marriage or relationship unless > the > 2 people involved allow it to be. I think Thomas only said that to try and > lay the guilt trip on people. Which isn't going to work regardless. > > -----Original Message----- > From: gamers-boun...@audyssey.org [mailto:gamers-boun...@audyssey.org] On > Behalf Of Lisa Hayes > Sent: 20 July 2011 13:11 > To: Gamers Discussion list > Subject: Re: [Audyssey] To all members > > Damien can you pass on our best wishes, well those of us who care that is. > Thomas did a job and a half here and was even and fare minded in his > decisions. I can't program games, but I value him and his ilk who can and > for him to go because of some selfish sucks in this community is shameful > and if he ever comes back you'd best push off first. all those who have > taken him apart well done for destroying someone and his marriage maybe. > grow up if you're capable of such. > Lisa Hayes > > > > > www.nutrimetics.com.au/lisahayes > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Damien C. Pendleton" <dam...@x-sight-interactive.net> > To: "Gamers Discussion list" <gamers@audyssey.org> > Sent: Wednesday, July 20, 2011 9:50 PM > Subject: [Audyssey] To all members > > >> Hey folks, >> I am afraid and sad to say that Thomas has carried out the act specified >> in his email. His unsubscription notification came into me roughly an >> hour > >> and half ago. >> I think it is very sad that it has come to this and I would hope that the >> offending members will learn by the consequences of their actions. I do >> hope, when things are a bit calmer, that Thomas may reconsider his >> decision to leave everything he has been working so hard to achieve, but >> I'm not banking on it. I have seen several situations where Thomas has >> been upset by the amount of pressure that is being put on him on both >> this > >> and his own mailing lists. >> I try not to take sides, but at the same time it is totally uncalled for >> to put so much pressure on an independent, hobbiest game developer that >> he > >> feels he has to leave absolutely everything behind him. >> Regards, >> Damien. >> --- >> Gamers mailing list __ Gamers@audyssey.org >> If you want to leave the list, send E-mail to >> gamers-unsubscr...@audyssey.org. >> You can make changes or update your subscription via the web, at >> http://audyssey.org/mailman/listinfo/gamers_audyssey.org. >> All messages are archived and can be searched and read at >> http://www.mail-archive.com/gamers@audyssey.org. >> If you have any questions or concerns regarding the management of the >> list, >> please send E-mail to gamers-ow...@audyssey.org. > > > --- > Gamers mailing list __ Gamers@audyssey.org > If you want to leave the list, send E-mail to > gamers-unsubscr...@audyssey.org. > You can make changes or update your subscription via the web, at > http://audyssey.org/mailman/listinfo/gamers_audyssey.org. > All messages are archived and can be searched and read at > http://www.mail-archive.com/gamers@audyssey.org. > If you have any questions or concerns regarding the management of the > list, > please send E-mail to gamers-ow...@audyssey.org. > > > > --- > Gamers mailing list __ Gamers@audyssey.org > If you want to leave the list, send E-mail to > gamers-unsubscr...@audyssey.org. > You can make changes or update your subscription via the web, at > http://audyssey.org/mailman/listinfo/gamers_audyssey.org. > All messages are archived and can be searched and read at > http://www.mail-archive.com/gamers@audyssey.org. > If you have any questions or concerns regarding the management of the > list, > please send E-mail to gamers-ow...@audyssey.org. --- Gamers mailing list __ Gamers@audyssey.org If you want to leave the list, send E-mail to gamers-unsubscr...@audyssey.org. 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