This writer should be awarded a human excrement decomposition Ph.D.
(that's Piled higher and Deeper).
Urban built the UF program? Urban's been an outstanding coach, but subtract
any one of many people who have built UF's sports empire and there would have
never been an Urban at UF. Think Graves, Cade, Spurrier, and a host of
others. Think Krueger and Donovan. Think a total sports environment of
excellence.
Meyer is just one small part of a huge sports machine at UF.
A. Leon Polhill, Gator
"I was gratified to be able to answer promptly, and I did.
I said I didn't know." - Mark Twain
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From: Gatornet Admin <gator...@comcast.net>
To: gatortalk@googlegroups.com
Sent: Tue, January 12, 2010 9:54:26 AM
Subject: [gatortalk] Why Urban returned
(This is being posted by me for one of our members, Art Wroble, who mistakenly
sent it to Gatornews. – Randy)
Why Urban returned
Below is some very interesting information. The guy passing on the
information is the most respected of posters and has some inside connections
with the team. He always caveats his "opinion". This is not his
opinion. This info comes from someone very close to the situation who felt the
truth needed to be spoken.
The post is long but basically it outlines that Meyer was offered a Leave of
Absence by Foley but decided to step down before the Sugar Bowl because he
wanted Charlie Strong to take the HC position before he went to Louisville
(that had not been finalized yet). Almost immediately after Meyer announced
his "retirement" Stoopes called Foley and was all but set to replace Meyer. It
was to be announced within days. When Meyer found this out, he decided to
about face and take the offered LOA. Meyer did not want his staff let go, his
program rebuilt by Stoopes and basically be done at Florida. People think of
Meyer as Foley's guy. He was actually brought in by Machen. Foley has
benefited from Meyer's success but Urban and Jeremy are not as tight as people
think.
Amazing how much goes on behind the scenes and we never know about it.
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On the main board a first time poster by the name of G8r Girl posted the
following: (note "girl")
"The Real Truth About Urban Meyer
I have been a member of Rivals / Gatorbait for about three years and, while I
am an avid reader of both the Alley and the main board, I have never once
posted so no one here knows me, including the Gators. I am not going to tell
you how I know any of this nor will I post again here on this subject. Flame
away if you must or take it for what it is worth…it is your prerogative.
With his health scare, Urban Meyer had a wake-up call. He realized he had been,
for several years, giving everything he had to his team to the detriment of his
health and his family. He felt it was a message from God that he had lost track
of his priorities and, being emphatically decisive he felt he had to make a
choice between his long-term health / family and his job. He chose his family..
Meanwhile, Bernie Machen, president of the University of Florida, Jeremy Foley
and Shelley Meyer wanted Meyer to take time off to get healthy, decompress,
spend time with his family and recharge his batteries. Meyer has essentially
earned “tenure” at UF and was encouraged to take a sabbatical. Despite their
collective and repeated efforts over several days, Meyer remained committed to
his own decision to step down because he is a type-A, all-in perfectionist. He
felt that if he could not do the job right now, he should step away in the
interests of his team and the university…and he had a plan.
Why the timing on the resignation?
Why couldn’t Meyer wait until after the Sugar Bowl---or for that matter NSD for
all you conspiracy theorists---to make this announcement? Why all the urgency?
Why create more distraction for his beloved team before their final game?
Because Meyer's plan was that Charlie Strong would get promoted to HC and after
some time off, Meyer would come back to UF and help Strong out at arm's length,
staying involved, though less directly, in the powerhouse program he built. For
his plan to work, he had to resign immediately, before Strong signed a contract
with Louisville. He could not wait until after the bowl game.
Why the sudden change of heart?
Practically the instant that the Meyer resignation hit the wires, Bob Stoops
contacted Foley. He wanted the HC job at Florida. Though we (Gators) all LOVE
Strong, Foley would not and could not promote Strong to HC with the likes of
Stoops in the candidate pool. Meyer knew that if Stoops took the job, he would
not be able to stay involved in the program in any capacity. Strong would go to
Louisville and all of Meyer's assistants would be out of a job. His players,
who he truly loves, would have to weather a complete change in coaching staff
and philosophy. In one week, he would lose all connection to the program he has
given everything to building for five years.
In short, Meyer felt he would be letting everyone down---his players, his
assistant coaches, his wife (who never wanted him to resign) and himself. Meyer
realized that if he didn't take the LOA option, he would lose his team and
program altogether. Placing faith in God and in his wife’s, Machen’s and
Foley’s assertions that all he really needs is some time off, he changed his
mind.
Meyer said that he changed his mind when he saw the team and coaches practicing
hard; when he looked at the championship signs around the stadium and reflected
on the program he built at Florida. Those statements are true. He also said, in
a later interview, "I didn't want anything to change. I didn't want anyone to
come in here and change what we built…"
Bob Stoops, absolutely without intention, accomplished in mere moments what
Machen, Foley and Shelley Meyer were unable to accomplish in several
days---getting Urban Meyer to rethink his course of action and decide to take
some well-earned time off after NSD and regroup.
While it is certainly possible that he could decide in the future not to return
to coaching at Florida, (which incidentally would not make him a liar as we are
all entitled to change our minds) I firmly believe---and this is my
opinion---that he will be on the Florida sidelines next season and for many
years to come. It will be hard work for him to learn to delegate sufficiently,
but he will learn to strike a better balance in his life with the support of
the Meyer family and his UF family. I think he is touched by the level of
loyalty and support being shown him by the UF administration, his players, his
recruits and Florida alumni and fans, and he will return to his job later this
year refreshed, grateful and with a renewed outlook.
As any fair-minded person who has had major personal and/or professional
decisions to make can attest, cross roads in life are very challenging. They
are made even more difficult for people whose lives are publicly scrutinized.
What we all witnessed was exactly this and nothing more. Meyer made a difficult
personal decision and when the facts changed, he made a different decision. The
only reason it seems strange to anyone is because you don’t know all of facts.
You merely assume that you do and pass judgment rather than give someone who is
highly accomplished the benefit of the doubt. If Urban Meyer, his family, the
university and his team are all comfortable with his decisions, that is all
that matters.
It would be nice if those of us who have faced somewhat similar challenges in
balancing our family and work lives reflected on this ourselves. For those of
you who are still too young to have experienced these types of challenges, your
day will come. Here is hoping that you find yourself surrounded by people who
care about you and are loyal to you like Urban Meyer has.
In parting, while I literally laugh out loud at some of the flame wars on this
board, it would be really great if, for one day, we could all act like we are
friends in a sports bar together drinking a beer and complimenting the positive
attributes about each other’s teams and coaches instead of trying to tear each
other down. While there is 0% chance that this will happen, I will nevertheless
give a shout out to the FSU fans. Congratulations on a phenomenal career, Bobby
Bowden! Well Done! I wish you luck, Noles, with your new coaching staff and
recruiting class and look forward to many years of competitive games for our
great rivalry! Cheers!"
Trust me on this, she is dead RIGHT!
This person is a relative of one of the principals involved and has intimate
knowledge of the inside facts.
The only thing she left out was that Stoopes had accepted the Gator HC job in
principle on saturday night and would have announced that decision to the OU
folks and the world on Sunday if Urban had not decided to reconsider and accept
the LOA. Stoopes was NOT going to use the UF job to get a raise out of OU as he
had done in the past. This time it would have been different.
While Strong was Urban's first choice, he actually submitted a list to Foley
that included Mullen and Whittingham in addition to Strong. Meyer wanted a
coach that would not feel threatened with him "looking over his shoulder" as a
defacto CEO of the Gator program. He would have left the actual coaching to
Strong or whoever.
Think of it, with Meyer recruiting andpulling the strings in that regard and a
black head coach, UF would have been a recruiting monster. It was a good plan.
However, Foley made it clear that although he would seriously consider Meyer's
choices, the final decision on the new coach was his. With the high level of
interest expressed by Stoopes it would have been a no-brainer to hire him
rather than one of Meyer's choices.
In addition, Stoopes would not have wanted Meyer to keep his fingers in the
program and would likely have brought as many of his staff at OU as would have
come.
She is right about the loyalty of Meyer towards his staff. It seems that some
of that loyalty may have been misplaced as several have left the program on
their own.
When this person says Urban will be back on the sidelines, she knows what she
is talking about. After Urban comes back I will reveal who she is.
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