Dear Vicky, Yes, ARK (AMMA) is really a amazing person, he is an Ideal Gay person. I was alway hearing about him and since last 3 years, I see him in person and I feel great to be a member of his family. This is a good statement, "if one horse stumbles in the war there are many more horsemen in the battlefield". But, even now, I feel that, why do SELF IDENTIFIED gay people turn themself as STRAIGHT / BI-SEXUAL. If one or the other day, they are going to marry female, why do they call themself as "GAY", is this identity, "GAY" is only to fulfill there sexual needs ?. If one or the other day that married FEMALE comes to know that her HUSBAND is sleeping around with other MALES, what happens to her? Are these kind of marrages sustainable? If one of the other day, every GAY want to become STRAIGHT, why do they call themself as "SELF IDENTIFIED GAY"? Is marriage with females is a tool to live in society as a "STRAIGHT"? Iam not only talking about Married Gay people, even there are several people, who like to CrossDress, and married to females. If a female comes to know that her husband is wearing female cloths and sleeping around with other men, what should she do? Does any Gay or CD thinks about this? As I usually hear, this is really a patriotic society, a person may be GAY, BI-Sexual, CD or straight, every MALE is taking the steps to use the existence of FEMALE. Some times I also feel that why should we discuss about those who do not stand on there own words? But Iam really worried about those Females. To be frank with you, every moment of my life, till today, I feel my self secured becuase of AMMA's Family (Humsafar Parivar) and I feel proud to have you, Nitin, Suhail, Abhijit and others as members of the Parivar. As a member of Parivar, I really feel that, we can take care of each other. Only this Parivar is the final thing, where we all can come together and live happily. Thanks again, Vivek,
Regards Nisha Vivek R Anand <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: My dear Nisha, believe in yourself. I remember Last year in Manila at one of the sessions ARK had said "So what if one horse stumbles in the war there are many more horsemen in the battlefield" I believe in ARK...this is not the first time and definitely not the last time that a good friend has moved away and decided to harm himself and an innocent woman. But fact remains that for every one such friend there are hundreds of other friends who have stood by the commitment of leading an honest life !! and you and nitin are just some of the many shining examples that i can give...and till the time we have people like you and ofcourse good old ammaji we will take care of each other and if one more horse stumbles..the rest will take care of each other and the journey will continue............after "WE ARE FAMILY" what i agree with you is and am concerned about is that most of the yahoogroups seems to be full of married men who become straight by the day and gay by the night ( or may be the other way round..i really dont know their modus operandi ) and want to enjoy the best of both the worlds. Vicky Just becoz one horse stumbled on the way does not mean Finally, I like to say Nitin, that, You are right, if any close friend, who changes himself according to the situation, whome should we belive?? Yes, one will lose faith in himself and all that one believes in. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Make a clean sweep of pop-up ads. Yahoo! Companion Toolbar. Now with Pop-Up Blocker. Get it for free! http://us.click.yahoo.com/L5YrjA/eSIIAA/yQLSAA/WfTolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== NEW CLASSIFIEDS SECTION SEEKING FRIENDS? VISIT www.gaybombay.info click on classified section and type your message in the post section once the link opens What's hot? What's not? Where are the LGBT parties being held and when? Click here!! http://calendar.yahoo.com/YYY,04497/srt,0/gaybombaygroup/?v=42&POS= Post:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Groups Homepage:- http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay Unsubscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
