Hey -- u have got me wrong buddy ---i didnt say move on and away . I meant that one should desist from a physical relationship --in simpler words -- no sex. 2 gays can be very gud friends without being bedmates i believe ! ?! "poor wide liberated /marry another man/divorce " --- Bull . look in the mirror man an u will c only a outrite selfcentred brain thinking of just himself and a fuck --nuttin more ,nuttin less. "he also has been selfish" -- does that give me a right to hit back at other ppl who believed in him and me ?i believe not -- by any standards on humanity and ethics. "Debate"--what on ?just so that some1 tells that "its ok pal"/"hota hai"/"aish kar duniya gayi GKG mein " and use this as a reason and "acceptable social behaviour" . "he may be holding the stick frm wrong end " -- human and his ability to c everything frm his angle and think the other angle is wrong never ever stops to fascinate me(including mine own so many several times of course in hindsight!) !!!!!!!!!!!!remember the eagle above when on the mountaintop buddy. Lets be sane pals and not let the devils of flesh eat into the relations and fabric of life across - why cant there be just friendship with an ex -- does 1 need to b in bed to have a shoulder to cry on ?does 1 have to have sex to believe in some1? yeah if some hetero wanna enter in here for one niters and some1 finds him worth the time --go ahead ,enjoy ,have fun ,relax -- but regular affair is nuttin but a recipe for sadness and shame i believe. Zeus beejay uncle <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
zeius has given one argument. but some may think that the other partner is holding the stick from the wrong end. he will probably need a shoulder to cry on sooner or later. if one moves on, the married partner will probably cheat on his wife and find another man also.where then is love ?? what is wrong in being a little selfish. the other partner also has been so. we have all discussed and concluded that gays shud not marry. will the poor wife suffer ,or be liberated. she can find a better normal man and lead a better future. these days, divorce is not a taboo. what is , if at all, enough time for a gay to experiment with a hetro marriage. debate please , all the gb men think ,suggest ,and do more for your immediate brothers. posting ads and and holding meets is not enough, we need to do more. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Give the gift of life to a sick child. Support St. Jude Children's Research Hospital's 'Thanks & Giving.' http://us.click.yahoo.com/lGEjbB/6WnJAA/E2hLAA/WfTolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== NEW CLASSIFIEDS SECTION SEEKING FRIENDS? VISIT www.gaybombay.info click on classified section and type your message in the post section once the link opens This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. For Parties and events go to: http://calendar.yahoo.com/YYY,04497/srt,0/gaybombaygroup/?v=42&POS= Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/