Re: g_b Discovering myself......A true story

[MyOnePenny]

Mangu -   As a person who was never at home in my father and mother's house with my 'normal' siblings...I found solace in my widowed paternal grandmother's home...which was dominated by her and her female friends...I was the special and very effeminate child of my grandmother's world..   As a transgendered person myself, I would recommend speaking to your psychiatrist or psychotherapist about the possibility of your being Transgendered...if you are not...then all is well...but if you are TG then you are headed for more frustration if you try to stuff your transgendered personality into a Gay bottle..   Most Indian TGs seem to spend their time either trying to be gay...or trying to alienate themselves as much as possible from the gay world...when they should just accept the fact that they are TG...and that gays and heteros are nice folks but not necessarily TG..   Elizabeth   In a message dated 5/27/2005 1:00:10 PM Mountain Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: DISCOVERING MYSELF........  was born postmaturely in the scortching heat of Nasik in a very well-off  family.My birth was the most awaited as the birth of a male  child would have conferred him the "only heir" of the family.I had two elder sisters and four cousin sisters.Every one was thrilled by the news...Its a Boy....Congrats you have a Son in your family! Well  I was a very troublesome child, I used to cry a lot...Keep my mother busy...also was not very sound as far as my health was concerned.I was no doubt a "precious" child but  was not brought up in a over protected environment...As i child I was shy, introvert n very quiet.At the same time in the house being amidst my "close" people I never missed any chance to throw Temper-Tantrums. My sisters being my role models and not having any "male" influence in my whole family was ofcourse effeminate.I used to like dressing like them, talking like them and so on.   Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== NEW CLASSIFIEDS SECTION SEEKING FRIENDS? VISIT www.gaybombay.info click on classified section and type your message in the post section once the link opens This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. For Parties and events go to: http://calendar.yahoo.com/YYY,04497/srt,0/gaybombaygroup/?v=42&POS= Post:-  gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:-  [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Yahoo! Groups Links To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/   To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED]   Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to the Yahoo! Terms of Service.