Hello Friends and lovers..... Please take my opinions with a lot of salt (not just a pinch).... Reading Mr JKA's email necessitates the need to allow marraige of the same sex in India. The male to female ratio is any way so skewed. There are these heterosexual male who are buying, kidnapping and raping women as there is no other way to get a bride for them. And a gay man is always a perfect husband. But in cases such as these, a gay guy marrying causes a shortage in the bride market. So if homosexuality is accepted as a natural way of life in India, it will resolve so many of these issues. So to all those men who love men but are stuck in a marriage, please take a right decision to release yourself and get unstuck. There is either a man or a woman who would love your wife more honestly than you.
Prasad S. john haddock <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Dear Mr jka (rich guy), Please excuse my forwardness in writing to you. I am an australian gay man with many discreet gay friends, both in Australia, India and Pakistan. Please allow me to extend to you my support and love from a fellow gay man, and let me also express to you my admiration of your honesty and forthrightness. I am sure I am already overstepping the bounds of politeness in writing to you. Your letter to the web site touched my heart deeply. I only wish sincerely for your future happiness with a loving partner and good man. If only - (I sometimes think) the rest of the gay world held human relationships in such honest esteem as you do. With sincere good wishes John Haddock (Sydney Australia) Rich Guy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Yes.................get rid of all Jaanjat and surrender yourself to God......You will find a perfect relationship...and plenty of Love... You are looking for Love at wrong place......Love is only with God...and not with material people... Give it a try... R G F Sahil Khan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: They say: Kabhi Kisi ko Mukammal Jahaan Nahi Milta.................. So, your type of man either exists or I think You will have to make one on ORDER!! Anyways, marry off the Child, marry off your wife to another man & then expect Love (faith & Trust) from a new life Partner !!! You say you are a well educated & settled off man in life. Need I speak more?? with all sympathies, SAHIL. Jayant Kumar <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: I am 50 year old male Computer Software Engineer, born, brought-up and educated in Western Uttar Pradesh, holding a post graduate degree in Engineering, permanent citizen of Delhi, married, having one son, short statured (5'-2"), non-smoker, non-drinker, vegetarian and disease-free. I am looking for my life partner or should I say a partner for my remaining life. My son is in final year Engg. Soon he will pass out and since he is in IT, I hope he would immediately get a job. After that I am going to arrange for his marriage as early as possible. After my son gets married, I will find a good man for my wife. I am already on the lookout. I have also received many proposals. As I find a suitable man, I would divorce my wife and arrange for her marriage with the man selected by me for her. Thereafter I will marry my partner and live with him, till death separates me from him. I have already disclosed to my wife that I am a gay. But to nobody else. I have my own house in Delhi in a good colony of Delhi. My income is Rs. 60,000/- p.m. (before tax). I need a pure gay friend, bisexuals kindly do not respond. I am versatile/bottom. Not much interest in penetrative sex. I feel pain in it. But I may tolerate it, if it is essential for my partner. Mentally also i am submissive. My partner would be commanding me which means that he would be like a husband and I would be like a wife in my relationship with him. I will always do everything with his knowledge and permission. I am good-looking for my age, as for as my face is concerned. But my body is not very attractive. I am lean and thin. I have not been taking any interest in myself almost all my life because I do not have a partner. I do not bother what I am putting on and what I am eating. I do not even take medicines in minor health problems. I let them cure by themselves or aggravate. I take meals simply because it is time for meals. My weight has been falling and I may be moving towards a premature death due to this. However, all this would completely change if I get a life partner. I would, then, take extreme care of myself, join some health centre, undergo a face lifting treatment and do everything so that I can look good for my life partner. My partner can live with me in my house in Delhi. If my partner wants me to live with him in his house, I have no problem. If he is in another city, it will be a pleasure for me to travel to join him. If my partner gives me permission, I am ready to disclose to the world that I am a homosexual. I think it will become necessary for both of us to declare it. Otherwise our marriage would not be stable. I daily pray to God to either give me a life partner or death, but He does not listen to me. He is happy keeping me like a living corpse. Who can be my life partner: --------------------------- A 45-60 year old man who is socially, educationally and financially similar to me or preferably better (since a husband is always superior to a wife). He would be a non-smoker, vegetarian, preferably non-drinker and taller than me. My partner would be a lover, a husband, a friend, and an elder brother for me. At times, he would have to perform the duties of my mother and father also. He would give so much love that I would completely forget the sorrows and miseries of life which I have undergone for obvious reasons for all my life. He would also have to make an abode for me with his arms where I would live happily and from where I would never like to go out. I am homeless, an orphan and a beggar. My partner, therefore, cannot expect to get anything from me in return for doing so much for me. I do not have anything. After thinking a lot and lot, I could find that I have a heart. My partner can take it if it is of any use for him. My partner would drop me in his car to my office every morning before leaving for his own office and take me in the evening from there on way from his office to our home. My partner would also give me car driving lessons since I do not know driving. He would daily phone me during lunch hour so that I do not feel lonely as I would have been away from him for about 4 hours since morning (a very long separation for me) and when he is a little free, he would call me to his office for having lunch with him in his office canteen or a nearby restaurant. Sometimes he would visit me in my office also. When it happens, I would feel so happy as if God has come to me. My colleagues would keep wondering why I am smiling so much and why my face has become red. How would they know that I am feeling shy? Please directly write to me at [EMAIL PROTECTED] Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. 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