Rahul, Aditya and Abhay and others who have responded to Prakash's mail - I know this guy Prakash and i have talked to the other fella as well. Prakash is a very nice, well read, decent and defenitely one of the best looking guys i have come across. I don't know anything about this sid fellow except that once i tried talking to him and stopped after i realised that he is a someone who is looking for intant satiation - in his word "good bottom who sucks damn well".
I think it is quite tactless and demented for someone to call the other person "ugly". I would never want myself to be judged like this, while the other person hides behind the cloak of anonymity. I am amazed at Aditya's "rude and obnoxious from the beginning" response. The first few lines of the conversstion are farthest from that description by any standard. I wonder if it is something else that motivated him to compose such a response - it defenitely reeks of an underlying motive. Or it could be my imagination. And the accusations of cut and paste - I think Prakash has made clear what really happened.Someone who had exploiting favor would have used cut-paste in a more useful manner - like deleting the lines where Prakash has called names to sid; he didn't do that, and i guess pasted the conversation as it is. --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, gaybombay <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > ---------- Forwarded message ---------- > From: Anand <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Date: Aug 6, 2005 3:10 AM > Subject: Re: g_b To the moderators... > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Dear Aditya, Abhay and Rahul - > > Firstly, understand that the conversation I posted was of me messaging > "am_i_hot_or_r_u" again after a span of several months in order to > reacquaint myself with him. As I was doing with all the other names I > did not recognise on my Yahoo list. Yes, it happens you know... you > talk to someone just once and then forget who they are when you or > they do not show up for months at a time. It happens... One of you > mentioned that it was unfair of me to disclose his chat ID, well, I > posted what was in my chat window and in my chat window you see my > NAME not my ID. Period. If you wished to know my ID then why didn't > you simply ask for it? Here it is for all you who are so curious, I am > gratified to supply it! [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > I am sorry that it irks you, but asl IS the fastest way to get the > most information about a person in the shortest possible time. Think > about it. I am sorry that all of you get bothered by being asked asl. > The thing is that you are not taking it in the right perspective. You > are being asked what your age is, your gender and where you are > located. Your age informations supplies the inquiring person with a > general background of your tastes and hobbies, your gender supplements > that and your location even further supplements the general picture > that has been painted. It is a sad fact that most people only use the > implied information to come to the conclusion that the supplier is > either fit or not fit to have sex with. Sad, but not everyone is that > way, and I for one do not ask that info simply to know if you are a > good knock in bed! > > Now, for your information, in the first conversation (which happened > over several months ago) with this person HE ASKED ME FOR MY PICS > FIRST. I supplied him with them and THEN asked that he reciprocate. HE > DID NOT SEND ME HIS PICS. THAT WAS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOT APPRECIATED! > And to set your false impressions to rest - I had sent him pics and > not turned on a cam for I HAVE NO CAM!!! After this fracas, for some > stupid reason or another he was in my Yahoo friend's list for all this > time. I have been offline for around four months or so and finally I > have come out of dormancy cause I finally have some time to spare. > > Herein lies the dilemma and the crux of the matter. And yes, it is > best that someone as gentile as you should not dabble your pink toes > in the murky waters of this chat community! Oh no! I am sure you might > get dirt under your figuratively pedicured nails!... > > You see, the question is, if you are going to chat to find people who > are savoury and good souls to meet and mingle with then you will by > NEEDS have to take the occasional risk of coming in contact with > UNSAVOURIES. I know that when people read this reply to your post they > will think "well now, why did Prakash give his photos in the first > place." I ask you all who wonder this, how could I not? > > I am sure that those of us who have been chatting online for good span > of time know that there is a risk factor in chatting. My posting the > conversation had two purposes behind it - 1) to remind the community > that uncouth behaviour online is uncalled for and does hurt peoples > feelings (WHICH IS ETHICALLY WRONG - COMPRENDE?) and 2) to > make the ID of this person known so that other people who are as > gullible as me would not be conned into sending him their pics and > then being told they are UGLY! GOT IT? > > I only had the courage to post this controversial post in the first > place after remembering the discussions of the entrapment issue. This > is on a much smaller scale but is still something that should be > noticed by the community. REALLY, is it necessary to call people ugly? > > Now, to set the record straight, yes I KNOW THAT I SPAT OUT THE FIRST > GAALI!!! I KNOW that; you do not need to point it out. I lost my cool > because this fraud had taken advantage of me a long while ago by > acquiring my pics and not reciprocating. I did not remember that > incident until getting further into the conversation with him - about > the time that he told me "am_i_hot_or_r_u (2/08/2005 2:30:48 AM): abe > chutia what does Sid mean if not the name??" Here is another pointer > to you three - does it not strike you that my asking "Siddhartha?" > could possibly be me asking if this is my friend who's name IS > Siddhartha???? I THOUGHT THAT THIS GUY WAS MY FRIEND! Does that clear > things for you? I was NOT asking for a full name my dear boys, I was > asking if this was the Siddhartha that I knew quite well! Though as > the GAALIS further down pointed out, it obviously was NOT my friend! > > Okay, now besides all that I've mentioned already, I've gone into the > recent archives of the group to see what other reactions there have > been to my post (I did not even know it was posted until a kind soul > emailed me his response directly). It seems that Aditya, Rahul and > Abhay all think that I exposed myself on cam. I did not. As I've > mentioned earlier in this reply, AM_I_HOT_OR_R_U got my pics from me > several months earlier. THIS is where I made a mistake - when he > refused to reciprocate WAY BACK THEN is when I should have put him > into my ignore list, which is where he is now. GOT IT FELLAS??? > > FINALLY, the conversation is NOT tampered with, I pasted it directly > from the chat window into the post. I did request that the moderators > edit it if they saw it fit to or necessary, it seems they did not > think it would be. The descrepency that you see in the posted > conversation is AM_I_HOT_OR_R_U'S PASTING ME A SECTION OF MY FIRST > CONVERSATION WITH HIM FROM HIS YAHOO MESSENGER ARCHIVE. That is what > you see and what you accuse me of tampering with. Of all the things I > might hear when posting this conversation Tintirin's and Rahul's > accusations of me tampering with the post are the most preposterous > and unlikely responses imaginable. I am sure AM_I_HOT_OR_R_U is > laughing his pants off just remembering this post if he has read the > chain.... > > Talk about bali ka bakra type scenarios... eh? > > Anyhow... I am gonna keep my eyes on the groups for a few days to > respond to anything that anyone wants to ask me. That is, if they want > to ask as opposed to blindly writting the mistruth that pops into > their inquisitive minds. > > Yours most incredulously, > Prakash > > > > > --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Aditya Bondyopadhyay" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]: > Dear Prakash, > > Read the cut paste of the chat. You were rude and obnoxious and > insistent > and the other person was right all along and only after you got > literally > crawling up his ass he called you a chutia madarchod. > > Well I do not chat and I do not think I shall start anytime soon. But > if I > do and if someone like you starts to chat with me and then asks me who > I am > and insists on knowing my full name even though I do not want to > reveal it > and then gets into a fights, and after all that is desperate enough to > show > me his nanga photos on webcam just to pressure me to show him my cam, > I > suppose I shall call him a CHUTIA as well.. > > Gist of the story: Get a grip on yourself. The world does not exist to > suit > your convenience. Learn to respect its norms, including chat > etiquettes, and > if you do not, don't expect returns. > > Aditya B > > > > > > > > -- > www.gaybombay.info <http://www.gaybombay.info> ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> <font face=arial size=-1><a href="http://us.ard.yahoo.com/SIG=12hlo63fs/M=320369.6903865.7846595.3022212/D=groups/S=1705064406:TM/Y=YAHOO/EXP=1123447121/A=2896112/R=0/SIG=1107idj9u/*http://www.thanksandgiving.com ">Give the gift of life to a sick child. 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