Before I start this discussion let me ask you guys some questions. How many of you made it to the GB New Year's party? Good! And how many of you attended any of the GB parties, functions or movies? I'm impressed!
Nevertheless the meeting at The Humsafar Trust on the 8th of January '06 was far less then impressive in the strength of people who attended. Why? Was it because there was no dance? Or was it because there were no drinks served free? Or was it because it was about some fellow GAY men arrest in ANOTHER city, why would we care? We don't even know them WHY BOTHER? How would our presence in the summit affect or help? I am enjoying my life flirting in public bogs why care? Its is utterly shameful for us as a community as homosexuals as well as members of GB group who in the same week flaunted being one of the largest gay groups in the WORLD that a message for a meeting of arrest of 4 men in lucknow could attract just a handful of gay men and women. We may not be able to give our expert suggestions or it wasn't even compulsory "if you are a part of the meeting you must speak" but at least you could have graced the ambience of The Humsafar Trust with your presence and shown a gesture of support just by being there. Did you know that a lot of highly qualified people in humsafar, GB, and other organizations are putting their careers at stake and personal aspirations aside just for YOU? A lot of feebly qualified outreach workers are spreading the awareness and truly proving themselves more LITERATE than all of us! So that you can live a life in peace and dignity! I'm sorry if I said something that hurt your feelings. I'm really sorry. I really didn't mean to hurt you guy. But just put yourself in the places of those men arrested and their families - parents/spouses/children being publicly humiliated while they are helplessly behind bars. Wouldn't you expect some support in such plight? Some help? Or at least a kind gesture from the community? Note: 1. I'm open to any criticism. 2. I'm not directly associated with Humsafar or GB at the moment. 3. And I was a silent spectator at this meeting. I really feel for the fact that a handful is taking responsibility of the masses and the masses just don't care, even within the community! How can we sensitize the general public and the press if we within the community are so indifferent? I would like to congratulate GB on being one of the largest gay groups in the world! But lets make the world feel OUR strength in size by supporting PEACFULLY what is RIGHT and not just STRAIGHT. Love and Regards, MtnG. Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/