Darling Raul, While you are staying single, maybe you should also pickle your balls and your prick in brine, dunk it in a saucepan of boiling soup, and eat it. You would not be needing it anyway, so why put it to waste and let it wither away. Might as well put it to some good use, no?. This would any day be better than having to use them, as that would be prostituting, which I see - you thnk is a very bad thing.
As far as I am concerned, you are a half assed nitwit, who is so convinced of his moral uppityness that he can derogate sex workers for no rhyme or reason. And since you talk of 'gayness' and since you have "joined" this 'fraternity' rather recently, I think it is not too late to leave this fraternity either. Please do, and we shall be much relived for that. Anyway, if you are sexless you are of no real use to the fraternity. As for gay love, yes, it does exist and a lot of people are happy at having found it. But it happens with its own rules, it is found within its own idioms, and it usually evades nitwits who want to replicate heterosexual patterns, become hoity toity about sex, bad mouth sex workers who are putting in an honest day's labour to survive, and go all dolly mushy meena kumari who has to go through the whole cycle of mohabbat, roothna-manana, gharwalon ki negotiations, baraat-doli crap, saat phere, etc etc before s/he opens her Chaddi. Darling the rules of the heteros do not apply here, so go to them if you want things to happen by their rules. This fraternity as you call it has its own rules, and its much more honest and direct than the dark games that heteros play. Yes for us sex is important and there is nothing to be ashamed about it. We do not wait for a whole load of natak before we have sex, and we are not hypocritical to call that nautanki 'love'. We start with sex, and if we find substance beyond that, we go on to becoming friends and even lovers. If we do not find substance, then we part after having enjoyed an honest encounter. That's love by our rules. If you are insulting of our rules, you have no place here. Go scoot. With your attitude of prudery and hoity toityness, you are the abnormal person in the 'fraternity'. Aditya Bondyopadhyay Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
