First of all, Aditya that was a hell of a good read!... and very much true. I love your writing style!
Now to the point... I have come across many messages from the group by people that have a lesser understanding of the english language - this is for them; i.e. a simplification of what Aditya wrote in my own words which are more straight forward because I could never be that eloquent even if I tried... once again, hats off to you Aditya! And the Lord said: Don't have sex or sexual relations behind the back of your wife because it is simply adultery and a nasty thing to do... if you really must, then your wife has EVERY GOD DAMN FUCKING RIGHT to be told about it (and then make a decision and stand on the issue for herself)!!! Hiding something like this is criminal... Period. If you're not married but on the threshold of it - tell that girl about your inclinations and don't (I repeat myself) DO NOT HIDE IT FROM HER!!! That simply amounts to LYING by OMISSION and LYING IS A BAD THING!!! Period. It never stops amazing me at exactly how good people are at justifying their "sins". If people were more honest (that is not to say blunt and/or TACTLESS - just more honest) then this world would be a much better place. Finally - tact... TACT does NOT equate with OMISSION of the truth! It only means that you will phrase your confession in a way that the other person will hear it instead of fainting dead away. GOT IT? (Really, it REALLY amazes me at how people justify wrong-doing with absolute bullshit! GROW UP guys, stand up and be just and good, don't give in to the temptation of sparing your dignity. Stand up and face the possiblity of criticism and possibly insult like a "Man"! That is called good Karma!) Anyhow, I could rant and rave and pontificate into the next millenium on this topic so I'll apply the brakes now and say my "Al vida's"... Bye for now y'all! Cheers! (Grow up losers!) --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Aditya Bondyopadhyay" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Darlings all, > > Here is the gist of the long brawl. The intention is bipartisan, but me > being me, I shall take editorial priviledge and beat up a few gits on the > side. Love you all, including the loveless fuckers. > 1] Everyone [gay, straight, bi, and everything before, after and in-between] > has the right to decide for themselves and themselves only, and no one can > judge another, provided: > > 2] What one decides is honest, upfront, ethical, undeceitful, undeceiving, > and does not hurt another or take him/her for a ride; therefore: > > 3] Every gay man has a right to get married, provided he tells the wife to > be that he is gay, so that she can take an independent and informed decision > about whether to get married to the gayboy or not; or in the alternative: > > 4] If he thinks that he cannot tell the wife to be, then he should not get > married; however: > > 5] If he just happens to be gutless, spineless, lacking family jewels, and > rather doormatty before domineering parents who want him to get married for > whatever reason, he should try and first develop gut, spine, and family > jewels, before taking any decisions, for he really is not an 'everyone' yet > [as defined by gist # 1 above], but is actually just a doormat and therefore > does not have the priviledge to decide; Over and above the dictum on honesty > etc. one of the important signs of having developed gut, spine, and family > jewels is to be able to tell papa and mama to back off [or is it fuck > of..??] and not be unduly bothered about the important question of being > left out of the family silvers; yet: > > 6] Should he illegitimately usurp such a priledge of decicion making [as > preserved for everyone but doormats] and decide to get married, without > letting wifey-to-be know about his actual predelictions, hoping in the > process that he can keep up the pretence of married heterosexual life while > bonking or being bonked on the side by other guys [maybe even keeping the > bonkboys in the dark about the wife decorating the lodgings back there], > then he is in clear violation of gist # 2 above [i.e. about honesty etc.] > and therefore can be judged as per the exeption provisio to gist # 1 above. > [Editor's judgement: he is a rascal of the highest order, and should be held > in spite and contempt by all decent human beings. Abusing suchlike people > withing the bounds of moderation policies of elists is a solelm duty]; but > then: > > 7] What about those that were already married before they 'discovered' their > true nature. Well, gist # 2 above applies to them and their remedy lies in > follwing its dictum. If they feel incapable of doing so, then they should > try and adopt the remedy prescribed in the first line of gist # 5 [i.e. they > should try and develop gut, spine, and family jewels to be empowered to > follow gist # 2]. They naturally should be allowed a reasonable time to > exercise this, and till then they should refrain from side piccadellos. That > way the wife is not practically cheated, only emotionally, but tough shit, > its not a perfect world; and Finally: > > 8] If in spite of reasonable time and and opporunity to turn into an honest > human being, they continue to think that the world is made up of gullible > chutiyas and they can take everyone for a ride, then last line of gist # 6 [ > i.e. he is a rascal etc.] above becomes squarly applicable to them. > > Luv2all, Aditya Bondyopadhyay > Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. 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