Dear Sumeet, I have never responded to anybody's mail with the frequency I am responding to yours. Reading your mails give me a perverted sort of glee.
This thread started when someone suggested to a hapless youth to go on and get married (I don't remember exactly who, but my best guess would be you). I have nothing against married gay men; after all it is their life and I have no right to tell them anything about anything. But I am against people like you who advocate giving in to familial and social pressures for marriage. Marrying a girl who is not aware of your sexual orientation is not right and it will never be. As far as steady relationships amongst gays are concerned, there are as many as there can be given the conditions prevalent in society. If homosexuality was as accepted as heterosexuality then I am sure you'd be able to find enough commited couples around to bolster your faith that homosexuals have as much ability to commit to life long partenerships - as heterosexuals. Even now there are many; but I guess, someone who is gay only when he is not "dedicatedly working at his job" or "professing platonic love to his wife", there are slim chances of seeing such people; because then you'd be coming across other such part time gays. I am happily settled down with my partner of three years and we know some half a dozen other such couples who have been together for years ranging between 2 to 19. Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] (attachments are removed in the digest mode. You get one or two digest mails per day containing all emails, minus pictures/attachments) No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. To post mates/freinds wanted log on to http://pub35.bravenet.com/classified/show.php?usernum=2998156902&cpv=2 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/