Isnt it a bit stupid to do either of both the acts?
The eyes speak tons which the words fail to express. So if the guy is someone
u life cant it be that u look at the guy - i am sure a person is inteliigent
enuff to know the intention behind the look quite easily- if he does respond
......well smile....speak ...................or watever.
Or do you really like the rush and adventure of groping without knowing where
and whom u are groping and like the adventurous high that the act gives -- if
yes ....wel be prepared for whatever the consequences--- good or bad
Bloot Fontaine <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Sorry that that happened. Do be careful next time. Quite often, I
also touch people I like in trains and if they don't like me, they simply move
away. Getting beaten up happens only if I pester the person beyond limits,
which I never do. Similarly, I also get touched in trains and even though I am
bi, it may happen that I am not attracted to the person who touches me and then
I move away or tell the person to shift a little bit as he is standing too
close and he DOES move away. I say this very politely, I do not start a fight.
It is a request.
Beatings have not happened. Maybe they happen if you are TOO persistent?
Can't say for sure. Train crowds are used to homos and are tolerant. Maybe you
got the odd gay basher.
Maybe next time you could try inserting a finger into his palm, instead of
touching his thighs? That would be less offensive to a straight.
Don't really know what advice to give you on this, except that I share your
pain and embarassment and sympathise with you and thank you for sharing this
with us.
Regards.
Hello Everybody,
Last weekend I had experience which is a nightmare for any gay.
I was travelling by train, wherein I looked at this guy who I thought was a
gay, when I started making inroads by touching his thighs..........
I got heavely beaten in front of all passengers.
I dont know whether I feel ashamed of myself or am I among the people who are
making the gay community more vulnarable to homophobic people by my acts.
Certainly I did learnt lesson, the hard way.
Take Care.
Abhay
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