There's no need to be abusive. We all share experiences for the benefit of each
other.
Cruising in those circumstances require discretion and some caution. No one
should be overly aggressive as it can offend - as it did in this case - and it
can also embarrass others around.
The gateway must always be eye contact. I'm sure dreamy eyes would tell you
about eye contact. Once there is that connection it's difficult to misread the
googly. There is an opening but even then the person may not be interested in
physical contact because of the surroundings and the situation. I've never been
to India so I can't say I can speak from experience.
Here's an anecdote. Last year while I was in London waiting for a train I
spotted a handsome guy and kept stealing glances at him. He was wrapped up in
business talk with a colleague and I'm sure he never noticed me. We got on the
same carriage which was crowded to capacity. To my utter delight we ended up
backing each other and I felt his beautiful butt rubbing against mine for
several stations. I just stood there hoping the journey would never end and in
rapture at each bump on the journey which thrust his rear ever so deliciously
against mine. I got off first...but I savoured those moment for the rest of
that day...and still do...apparently.
No harm + thrills for me = good outcome.
Dreamy Eyes <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
well..... I might been rude....... in fact I was..... am sorry
about that........ but guys.... just think about it..... acting purely based on
your instinct and not thinking.... what trait does it present at the first
shot??........ he wrote the whole incident which presents exactly this
picture......... isn't it????......... local trains in Bombay, Metro Rail in
Calcutta are two famous crusing places......... in fact I am from Calcutta and
while travelling by metro rail got looks from others or looked at others.......
I know that's very matural....... Abhay u did not do anything wrong looking at
him...... but my point was when he said he tried to grope the person..... or to
put it in the better way feel the person....... I mean shouldn't we been a bit
more restrictive in that???......... right now am in New York and here in
subway also people do look........ I saw some real eye-candies..... and few
looked to me also...... here people has a fascination for
tanned skin....... neway my point is that enjoy ur fantasy but we should know
the limit of pursuing it ........ amn't I right???..........
to Abhay : am sorry for calling you names......... but tell me if in a house
one person does a wrong wudn't other people first get mad and then realize that
we need to talk about it???....... I think our GB grp is such.......
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