I have never read anything so DISGUSTING before! Does "Pasha" mean to say that a gay man should spoil a poor woman's life just because she is, "poor and illeterate?" The writer should hang down his head in shame. Has he no care for other's feelings? Is he a woman hater? I do hope other readers also castigate this illeterate, shameless, idioticand ruthless Mr. Pasha. We can do without his ilk. He is the type of person responsible for gays being at the recieving end. Asfan.
pasha_trans <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: No PROBLEM it cab be solved peacefully. HOW and WHY we all play game of pretending. we can pretend that in everyday life. suppose a gay man is having sex with his wife. he can imageni that he is loving a man. physical and mental activities are separate things. passive men can ask their women to penetrate them with fingers. actually gay men marrying in poor families are in very ideal position. illeterate and rural background women of poor status seldom complain about anything. it is tragic that gay men are merrying women of their similar financial status and from educated families. this is wrong. educated women especially of big cities are very demanding. they must be avoided. --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "gay_bombay moderator" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Dont know how much truth is there in this report. Just posting it for > reading > > Moderator > ============================================================= > http://www.dnaindia.com/report.asp?NewsID=1153165 > Wife wants to divorce gay hubby > Divyesh Singh > > *Salma Shaikh says he had sexual relations with male servant; in- laws ask > her to keep mum* > > MUMBAI: When 22-year-old Salma from Mumbra married Amjad Shaikh from > Kolhapur in May 2006, she had no idea hers would be a marriage of > convenience for her husband. Barely a few days into the marriage, she was > shocked to discover her husband was homosexual and that he shared sexual > relations with a male servant Rafique, 35, who worked in their house. > Feeling cheated, Salma has now filed a case against her husband and in-laws > in the Mumbra police. > > "After marriage, Amjad established sexual relations with me only for a week, > that too unwillingly. Then he started avoiding me," Salma told DNA. "A few > days later, I found that Amjad was close to Rafique. I brushed it aside as > friendship. Later, I caught them in the act several times, and discovered > that the two had sexual relations. He refused to eat meals from my hands and > demanded Rafique's involvement in everyday chores," said Salma. > > When Salma informed her in-laws, they harassed her, pressuring her not to > disclose the matter to anyone. "They would demand more dowry," she said. > > "Rafique has been with the family for a more than a decade. Amjad and his > family own many businesses in and around Kolhapur. They are influential, so > they threatened to kill me and my parents if I spoke about the issue to > anyone," she added. > > Salma came to her parental house in February 2007. She has been demanding > divorce, along with her belongings and jewellery, ever since but her in laws > have refused. Salma also filed a complaint with the Maharashtra State > Women's Commission, Kolhapur division last year, to which Amjad did not > respond. > > "Salma has been deceived by her in-laws. We want justice for her now, why > did Amjad marry her when he was not going to give her the place of his wife > and satisfy her sexually. He should be severly punished for that," Khurshid > Bano, Salma's mother said. > > A case has been registered against Amjad under sections of dowry harassment > and cheating. Under special directives of Supreme Court, Salma can register > a case in Mumbra. > > "Action will be taken against the accused soon," said Arun Sonde, senior > inspector, Mumbra police station > > > -- > www.gaybombay.in > www.gaybombay.info > --------------------------------- 5, 50, 500, 5000 - Store N number of mails in your inbox. Click here.