I have never read anything so DISGUSTING before! 
  Does "Pasha" mean to say that a gay man should spoil a 
  poor woman's life just because she is, "poor and illeterate?"
  The writer should hang down his head in shame. Has he
  no care for other's feelings?  Is he a woman hater?
   I do hope
  other readers also castigate this illeterate, shameless, idioticand ruthless 
Mr.
  Pasha.
  We can do without his ilk.  He is the type of person responsible
  for gays being at the recieving end.
  Asfan.

pasha_trans <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
          
No PROBLEM it cab be solved peacefully.
HOW and WHY

we all play game of pretending. we can pretend that in everyday 
life. suppose a gay man is having sex with his wife. he can imageni 
that he is loving a man. physical and mental activities are separate 
things. passive men can ask their women to penetrate them with 
fingers.

actually gay men marrying in poor families are in very ideal 
position. illeterate and rural background women of poor status seldom 
complain about anything. it is tragic that gay men are merrying women 
of their similar financial status and from educated families. this is 
wrong. educated women especially of big cities are very demanding. 
they must be avoided.

--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "gay_bombay moderator" 
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> Dont know how much truth is there in this report. Just posting it 
for
> reading
> 
> Moderator
> =============================================================
> http://www.dnaindia.com/report.asp?NewsID=1153165
> Wife wants to divorce gay hubby
> Divyesh Singh
> 
> *Salma Shaikh says he had sexual relations with male servant; in-
laws ask
> her to keep mum*
> 
> MUMBAI: When 22-year-old Salma from Mumbra married Amjad Shaikh from
> Kolhapur in May 2006, she had no idea hers would be a marriage of
> convenience for her husband. Barely a few days into the marriage, 
she was
> shocked to discover her husband was homosexual and that he shared 
sexual
> relations with a male servant Rafique, 35, who worked in their 
house.
> Feeling cheated, Salma has now filed a case against her husband and 
in-laws
> in the Mumbra police.
> 
> "After marriage, Amjad established sexual relations with me only 
for a week,
> that too unwillingly. Then he started avoiding me," Salma told 
DNA. "A few
> days later, I found that Amjad was close to Rafique. I brushed it 
aside as
> friendship. Later, I caught them in the act several times, and 
discovered
> that the two had sexual relations. He refused to eat meals from my 
hands and
> demanded Rafique's involvement in everyday chores," said Salma.
> 
> When Salma informed her in-laws, they harassed her, pressuring her 
not to
> disclose the matter to anyone. "They would demand more dowry," she 
said.
> 
> "Rafique has been with the family for a more than a decade. Amjad 
and his
> family own many businesses in and around Kolhapur. They are 
influential, so
> they threatened to kill me and my parents if I spoke about the 
issue to
> anyone," she added.
> 
> Salma came to her parental house in February 2007. She has been 
demanding
> divorce, along with her belongings and jewellery, ever since but 
her in laws
> have refused. Salma also filed a complaint with the Maharashtra 
State
> Women's Commission, Kolhapur division last year, to which Amjad did 
not
> respond.
> 
> "Salma has been deceived by her in-laws. We want justice for her 
now, why
> did Amjad marry her when he was not going to give her the place of 
his wife
> and satisfy her sexually. He should be severly punished for that," 
Khurshid
> Bano, Salma's mother said.
> 
> A case has been registered against Amjad under sections of dowry 
harassment
> and cheating. Under special directives of Supreme Court, Salma can 
register
> a case in Mumbra.
> 
> "Action will be taken against the accused soon," said Arun Sonde, 
senior
> inspector, Mumbra police station
> 
> 
> -- 
> www.gaybombay.in
> www.gaybombay.info
>



                         

       
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