Prashantjee Namashkar By giving into pressure you acceded defeat in the most important battle, against yourself. Its no point in fighting with others be it the government or members of society. We are gay but we are men, we have the courage and the ability to stand up for our-self and what we are. Doosron ki jay se pehle khud ko jay karen- So chillax
One of my friends was in the same predicament and was depressed a lot, the only thing I had to say to him was that he should stand by whatever decision he has taken and own upto his responsibilities [he too had a kid] Someone has to suffer loose. Why not the one who has started the miss-adventure? he hates me now and I have no idea what he did eventually. Maybe even his wife will weep in his presence for the rest of her life. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla ________________________________ From: asfan <asfa...@yahoo.com> To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thu, February 25, 2010 7:37:12 AM Subject: Re: [GB] Re: [lgbt-india] Warning about this Prashant Guy Dear Prashant, I am, perhaps, even older than you - I have just completed 70, I know what it was like to be a 'homo' in the good ole days. BUT, I could avoid getting married. Why couldn't you? It was difficult but not impossible. Where there is a will there IS a way!! If you had remained single we would have been spared your hysterical rantings. asfan --- On Wed, 24/2/10, Prashant <p...@yahoo.com> wrote: >From: Prashant <p...@yahoo.com> >Subject: [GB] Re: [lgbt-india] Warning about this Prashant Guy >To: "Gay_Bombay" <gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com>, "GayBombay" ><gaybom...@yahoogrou ps.com>, "lgbt-india" <lgbt-in...@yahoogro ups.com> >Date: Wednesday, 24 February, 2010, 5:19 PM > > > >Dear friends, > >This is all completely wrong. > >I am a real person, a gay man. I belong to the age when homosexuality was >totally unheard of and completely unacceptable in India. Internet was not >existing and I had nobody in whom I could confide. I had to marry due to the >pressures from the society and I ended up ruining the life of my wife also. My >children also suffered due to my homosexuality. > >Today, none of you, the young people, has felt the pain which I had to >undergo. This is the reason I have become more critical of Indian rulers and I >want to ask this country why it did with me what it has done. I want to use >legal machinery to ask India what was my mistake due to which they punished me >this way. This is the reason I have become more passionate to gay rights in >comparison to you. > >This is the only difference between you and me. You are enjoying life in >company of gay friends whereas I am rotting in hell. My wife keeps weeping >before me all the time, since I disclosed to her about six years ago that I am >gay. She is completely lonely today. I also have nobody to whom I can talk. I >have no courage to commit suicide otherwise I would have done that long back. > >You have not felt the real pain of being born as a homosexual, so you are >permissive of Indian rulers. I know, many gay people live as happily as >heterosexuals, if not more. So, you do not mind when the government delays >your rights. > >I AM LIVING TODAY ONLY BECAUSE I REMAIN CONNECTED TO YOU ON THESE FORUMS. MY >ONLY TIME-PASS IS READING YOUR MAILS AND REPLYING TO THEM. I HAVE NO OTHER >PURPOSE IN LIFE. > >IF YOU STOP TALKING TO ME THE WAY ADITYA HAS SUGGESTED, HOW SHALL I LIVE? > >If you do not believe me, you can read my life story which I had written about >10 years ago. The story is available here: > >http://users1. jabry.com/ pg211/prasstor. html > >I have created two sites for gay matrimonials. Some people have found their >life partners through my sites. > >A south Indian Tamilian gay man found a British gay man using my site and they >are now legally married in Spain and living there happily. > >I want to give today's gay community what I always desired for myself but >could never get. > >I have a plan to come out after the marriage of my children and file several >cases on the government of India. Today, I am trying to prepare those cases >and perfecting them. I need your advice and help. > >I AM ALSO PLANNING TO GO TO JAIL FOR GAY RIGHTS AFTER COMING OUT. I WILL NOT >MIND IF I HAVE TO SPEND MY REMAINING LIFE IN JAIL. > >All charges on me are wrong. > >Aditya is fabricating false charges on me simply because my opinions on >various issues are different than many others. This is a conspiracy to remove >me from the list. > >"In the past a response to this Prashant person's email was actually used in >the Supreme Court to seek a stay on the judgement of the Delhi High Court" - >This is completely false. As far as I can remember, an stay was sought in >August 09 by S. K. Kaushal. At that time I was not writing on these forums. I >started writing somewhere in November. > >"that gay men are asking for marriage for gay men, which would harm families" >- Previously also I have written and once again I am writing that everybody >knows that ultimate aim of gay movement is gay marriages. There is nothing new >in that. Supreme Court know it. All countries who have made SSML today had >removed laws similar to 377 previously. > >"Prashant charecter comming forward and identifying his bona-fides verifiably >and openly to disprove this theory and this warning" - I cannot come out now. >The prospects of my children's marriage will be totally finished if I do that. >I can come out only after the marriage of my children. I live in New Delhi in >a southern colony. I cannot disclose more than that now. > >Prashant >------------ --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- - >Matrimonials for Same-sex Marriages (http://users1. jabry.com/ pg211/index. >asp) >Matrimonials for Bisexuals (http://users1. jabry.com/ pg211/bi/ index.asp) > >--- On Wed, 24/2/10, Aditya Bondyopadhyay <adit.b...@gmail. com> wrote: > >From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay <adit.b...@gmail. com> >Subject: [lgbt-india] Warning about this Prashant Guy >To: "Gay_Bombay" <gay_bom...@yahoogro ups.com>, "GayBombay" ><gaybom...@yahoogrou ps.com>, "lgbt-india" <lgbt-in...@yahoogro ups.com> >Date: Wednesday, 24 February, 2010, 2:45 PM > >Dear All, >I have been given a warning from a source that I belive to be reliable, but >I am not at liberty to disclose. It concerns this person called Prashant, >who has not only been writing derogatory things about the Jdges and about >the 377 judgement, he has also deliberately been provocative towards leaders >of the community and have been trying to elicit comments from all such. > >This Prashant person either does not exist or exists only as a front for an >organisation that is a part of the 377 litigation and is up in appeal >against the Delhi HC judgement. In the past a response to this Prashant >person's email was actually used in the Supreme Court to seek a stay on the >judgement of the Delhi High Court. > >I belive this warning to have merit because one of the main arguements of >the opposition has been that gay men are asking for marriage for gay men, >which would harm families, and the mails of Prashant has been exactly to >elicit support for this theory, quoting outrageous theories, which if they >find any support from the LGBT constituency is surely to weaken the case >before the Supreme Court. Moreover if anyone actually supports his theories >against the judiciary that would pit the LGBT movement against the >Judiciary. > >In effect I do belive that he is a MOLE working for the opposition. > >Therefore while I cannot ask that anyone be banned on the list, I ask every >sensible person on the list to PLEASE PLEASE refrain from reacting in any >manner whatsoever to anything that this Prashant writes. Please give him the >cold shoulder, or just reply stating "No Comments to MOLES". I am looking >forward to this Prashant charecter comming forward and identifying his >bona-fides verifiably and openly to disprove this theory and this warning. >Till then "No Comments to MOLES" > >Best to all, >Aditya Bondyopadhyay > >Your Mail works best with the New Yahoo Optimized IE8. Get it NOW! >http://downloads. yahoo.com/ in/internetexplo rer/ > ________________________________ Your Mail works best with the New Yahoo Optimized IE8. Get it NOW!.
