I hv been keeping a relation with my Ex Bf for about 2 yrs.
Helped him in financially for all his needs, such as Air Ticket, Mobiles, gold ring, Gold Chain, Hospital Exp, day to day expenses,Hard disk, Clothes, Jacket for interview etc as he was jobless & Sick.
Only thing he was a lier throughout & still I accommodated. He was very adamant with his lies even though I exposed few times. Whenever I was in Mumbai he used to meet me 2 times a week , rest he used to give me all sort of excuses. But later I found-out he-used to go with others. Well I told him I wouldnt mind going wd others but tell me wd whom he goes. He used to swear upon his parents & Jesus Christ ( He is a Cristian boy) that since he started wd me never been wd any. It was a lie bcz I exposed his lie twice. He use to justify a lie with 1000 lies. Still i was very much accommodating to keep him happy. I knew he had lot of problems in his life. He was a hard core bottom been with many even foreigners before becoming friendly wd me. He was living wd his relatives they used to take care of his daily food. Rest I was supporting. He was very good looking like a foreigner. Even though 24 yrs look like a boy of 20. Tall & fair.
He had fetish for under wears used buy at least 4 every month. Waxing his legs & Chest n was proud of himself. When i'm away I used to send him 8-9000 rupees every month.
When I was away he started working for a salary of 4000, as a trainee but used to up/down fr work by auto paying 80+80 every day, bcz of my remittance.so after 4 month i landed back on Saturday & waited for him near to his place to give a surprise but that evening he never turned up. I called his number not responded & called him nxt day he swear ed to me that he reached home by 8.30pm.
I told him I wouldn't mind if he had n with any, bcz he is a needy guy but tell me the truth. He started shouting on phone . I tried to calm him down but he was just accusing me with all sort of nonsense stating he will go2 police stating that I was using him and all.
The nxt day he wanted to justify that he reached his place in 30 min, call me near his work place and both of us travelled on same rick but never reached in 30 mins but he still he was justifying. So i walked out from there without any comments.
Then started all threatening & all as I stopped helping him financially. Then he become very furious.
He had faulted his net payment and even though the con was discon in feb the bill continued & accrued to Rs.8500/- b4 I left in Jan I paid the bill on 4Jan & gave him the Receipt which he say he misplaced N accused me I never paid bcz of that net discon.Now he says he has only one Tension that is reliance's pending bill, which he expecting to settle if I want to ease his tension, but nothing 2 do wd me anymore.
I wanted to settle the bill, Made inquiry n called him, sms him for some details but he never replied or attended my calls.
Since no more funding, he started to travel by bus, which would cost him only Rs24 up/down instead of Rs.160/-
Most of the money I gave was through Bank Transfer & I hv all the copies.
I want to help him but he is very adamant that he doesn't need my help, he is poor, as long he gets his food & accommodation from his relatives he is happy.
I know well he wouldnt be happy without any luxuries. He says he has parents, but never lived wd his parents for the last 5 yrs. Last year he visited his home but returned after 5 days saying that his elder bro ( 2 yrs elder) kicked & beaten him for being there. I doubt wheter the so called parents are his own or he is adapted. He has a foreigner look but other sibling not. Bcz he had tld me that.
In between he had visited Bangkok, he said his father arranged the ticket. For the trip I helped him ws USD 600/- apart from arranging Foreign Currency with his money. I dont know with whom he had gone, taken my Camera too but never shown me any pics or returned my camera. Always used to tell me later later but never came. I doubt he had gone wd some for a sex trip. During his trip he was never in touch wd me eventhough I had given him a Thai Sim. As long as he was getting my steady money he was very good with me. Now he doesnt even care to talk on the phone. I know his cousin also knows he is a gay. He has a sissy walk.
I still feel pitty for him But he is very adamant & with an attitude problem.
Today he is my sworn Enemy, always threaten wd police complint, hen ever I call ( Very seldom he attend) even though I know he has no base to make any complaint.
I knew from the begining he wasn't honest & Sincere. He was after money only.
One thing was good, he is a non smoker, non drinker with simple food habits. Never attend any gay public party. Dont kw whether he used to go4 Pvt parties.
WHAT TO DO????????????????????????????????
ANY SUGGESTIONS
