My Debian system's tar identifies itself as "tar (GNU tar) 1.22" and the output generated with --help includes the following excerpt where that --no-overwrite-dir option sounds like what you wanted:
Overwrite control: -k, --keep-old-files don't replace existing files when extracting --keep-newer-files don't replace existing files that are newer than their archive copies --no-overwrite-dir preserve metadata of existing directories --overwrite overwrite existing files when extracting --overwrite-dir overwrite metadata of existing directories when extracting (default) --recursive-unlink empty hierarchies prior to extracting directory --remove-files remove files after adding them to the archive -U, --unlink-first remove each file prior to extracting over it -W, --verify attempt to verify the archive after writing it _______________________________________________ gnhlug-discuss mailing list gnhlug-discuss@mail.gnhlug.org http://mail.gnhlug.org/mailman/listinfo/gnhlug-discuss/