Santosh, Being a non-cafeteria Catholic or a non-cafeteria Goan does not make one a fanatic. There is nothing wrong with being and staying married and going to Sunday Church. There is something wrong with being divorced. Ask the kids.
One could say being a fanatic or as you may like to put it fundamentalist is precisely what being cafeteria all about. Selecting just one aspect of life just to scream and fight over is what cafeteria is all about. Goans are good about this Being cafeteria means losing one's identity under the guise of being progressive or changing the rules just to suit one's convenience or personal agenda. Imagine playing world soccer with cafeteria rules. :=)) Regards
