Not all Tarvotti's wives are like that..there maybe few who think that way..
and there is a reason why they want them to join the ship after 3 months.
.
You may be aware that 'Tarvottis' in Goa are horrad and they are the ones
who spend the most,
after the gulfies n foreigners. Having spent 9 months on board the ship they
come down
for a holiday and they give their best to the family, not only their wives n
children but even
their parents n other members in the family. They spend their entire
earnings in Goa,
so by the end of the 3rd month they are almost broke. Sometimes their stay
is more than 6 months
(depends on the co.) n there is no other income for them. They do not get
paid for those long
holidays,...they have to wait for the call..n sometimes the company does not
bother send a call if u dont
take any interest in joining.... and in such circumstances...if the wives
remind them then its in the interest
of the family, cause they are the ones who manage n take decissions in the
house when the tarvottis are away..

Regards
Edward Verdes
Chinchinim/KSA



Joe wrote:

>Be care full if you marry by 'soirik' or propose/arrange marriage - Most
Girls now a
>days prefer 'Tarvotti' so that they can continue with their ex-boyfriends
while
>their husbands are away at sea etc

>Such wives are most likely to ask their husbands questions such as..

>"...after 3 months staying with his wife and only child back home his wife
started
>to ask him, when you are leaving back to sea?"




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