Dear Aristo, Please don't ask Gilbert what to do about a marriage ceremony as he's definitely not paying for it :))
The thing that Gilbert seems to be oblivious to, is that decisions like marriage, baptising a child, etc are not taken autonomously. Hopefully there are two people involved in such decisions and the opinions and religious affiliations of the other person matter just as much. Just because you compromise, does not make your own values and ideology any less valid. Afterall, what does the rock solid Christian code teach us. That it is important to compromise in a relationship or arrogantly assert your own ideas into every sphere of life? Selma --- Aristo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > 4. If you are an atheist or similar, did you marry > in the Cathlic > faith as a Catholic? > Ans: N/A. I am not married. But should I do so, I > think I will marry > in a Church with all the Catholic traditions if my > parents insist in > the interest of tradition, and if they pay for it, > of course. It also > depends on the religious affiliation of my then > fiance, and her views, > too. The religious aspect of the marriage ceremony > will have no > meaning to me, of course, and will merely be a > facade. What do you > think I should do? > __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com _______________________________________________ Goanet mailing list Goanet@lists.goanet.org http://lists.goanet.org/listinfo.cgi/goanet-goanet.org