------------------------------------------------------------------------ * * * 2006 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * ------------------------------------------------------------------------ WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa
WHEN: December 21, 2006 @ 4:00pm More info: http://lists.goanet.org/pipermail/goanet-goanet.org/2006-December/051398.html ------------------------------------------------------------------------ JoeGoaUk wrote about his cousin: ======================================================================= My cousin is available.. She is young, slim, simple, innocent, virgin, homely, convent educated, God fearing etc She is only 41. Now, before you ask how come she is so young or late .. Well, there were many proposals but mostly rejected by her two younger brothers who were then bachelors. Now that they are married and she is not getting on well with her sister-in-laws, she approached me I assured her to find someone on our popular Goanet. This is what she is going to take with her (you can term it as dowry)* Her full share in the ancestors house, properties, Parents (deceased) bank deposits etc Her share alone worth 55 lakhs (Now keep this in between you and me only). As the parents did not leave behind a 'will', they have all long applied for 'inventory' proceedings she is 'Cabeca de Casal'(head of the family) the process likely to finish within one month. Plus she has two full sets of jewelry and other ladies stuff. Now, please don't ask me how I know about her V (victory)? Believe me or not. ----------------------- A few questions Joe since you have gone public with your description. 1) Unlike conventional adverts you have not mentioned her height and complexion. Why? 2) Other than 'convent educated' you tell us nothing about her qualifications. Why? 3) I suppose some folks place a premium on virginity so I will let that pass. But please explain to me what is meant by 'innocence'. She has never dated? Never had physical contact of any sort with a man? Never been in romantic love? Never even perused any matter that might be considered erotic? Completely unaware about the process of pro-creation. Is it ignorance parading as innocence? 4) The material possessions seems to be dominant in your description of your cousin. Why? 5) You have not mentioned anywhere what sort of a man your cousin is looking for. Surely she has some criteria? If earlier proposals were rejected by her brothers then maybe they will reject new ones too. Doesn't she have any say in the matter? Will her brothers then decide how the couple lives too? With 55 lakhs at her disposal and 41 years of life experiences surely she can make such an important decision herself? Please do not take offense to any of my questions. I am merely curious about the process of advertising oneself for a matrimonial. I am not particularly bothered about your cousin but want to ask the larger question. What is it that we as a society value and parade while advertising a prospective spouse. Are these the same values that others are looking for? Are they truly the important ones to make a marriage work? Cheers! Cecil ======== -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.409 / Virus Database: 268.15.22/590 - Release Date: 12/16/2006