26-Oct-2014
Dear Friend,
The question could be asked: Who is wise and who is foolish? Is wisdom a matter 
of age and experience? In that case there should be many wise people among the 
aged and yet we know that there are few who are truly wise. Does wisdom come 
from learning and acquiring skills? Perhaps we know many people who have 
acquired degrees and possess many skills but who are not necessarily wise 
people. Can we do anything to become wise people? Is not wisdom a gift bestowed 
by God? Today’s word confronts the foolish and the wise of this world. Have a 
discerning weekend. -Fr. Jude
Sunday Reflections: 32nd Sun. 'Seek and await God’s wisdom, to make wise 
choices always!’ 9-Nov-2014Wis. 6:12-16;                                      1 
Thes. 4: 13-18;                              Matt. 25: 1-13;
The first reading from the Book of Wisdom personifies wisdom, as Lady Wisdom, 
who is to be found by all who seek her. Through divine wisdom God communicates 
to mankind the meaning of life and living. What we need most in life is wisdom; 
when we have found God we become truly wise since He guides our every step. 
True wisdom in a person is that quality that shows that one is truly in contact 
with God, and that He is, in a large measure, acting in one’s life. Wisdom can 
be said to be the inner light, given by God, which, is given only to those who 
thirst for it, seek it, love it and carefully nurture it when received.
The Parable of the CaveThree wise men were encouraged to find what had been 
called the Cave of wisdom and life. They made careful preparations for what 
would be a challenging and arduous journey. When they reached the place of the 
cave, they noted a guard at the entrance. They were not permitted to enter the 
cave until they had spoken to the guard. He had only one question for them, and 
he demanded that they answer only after talking it over with one another. He 
assured them that they would have a guide to lead them through the regions of 
the cave. His question was a simple one, “How far into the Cave of wisdom and 
life do you wish to go?” The three travelers took counsel together and returned 
to the guard. Their response was, “Oh, not very far. We just want to go far 
enough into the cave so that we can say that we have been there.” The reaction 
of the guard manifested none of his great disappointment as he summoned someone 
to lead the three seekers a short distance into the cave, and then watched them 
set out again after a very short time, set out to make the journey back into 
their own land.Paula Ripple in ‘Walking with Loneliness’
In today’s Gospel Jesus tells a parable of the seven wise and seven foolish 
virgins to remind us that we should be awake and prepared for the coming of the 
Lord, because we do not know at what hour he will come. The virgins stand for 
people who are waiting for the coming of the Lord. To be wise is to be ready 
and prepared for any eventuality, for what might happen. Jewish wedding 
ceremonies were celebrated at night. The girls who formed the procession 
accompanied the groom to the house of the girl’s father. No time was set. Those 
who were prepared were welcomed, while the unprepared were left out. Their 
fault wasn't to sleep but to be unprovided for their part in the torchlight 
procession. Missing the feast meant losing the kingdom. The virgins typify 
mankind in search of purpose. Some lack resolution, others are preoccupied with 
the distractions and trivialities while some stay focused on their ultimate 
purpose.
The kingdom of heaven is like…The kingdom of heaven is like ten young people 
who wanted to hear a very popular pop group that was due to arrive in town. 
Five of them were foolish and five were wise. When the tickets went on sale the 
five wise ones queued up all night and duly secured their tickets. But the five 
foolish ones did not bother to queue up for them. On the night of the concert 
they went along nevertheless, thinking that they would be able to buy tickets 
at the door, or that they would meet someone who would get them in. Alas, when 
they got there, all the tickets were gone, and they were turned away at the 
door. They went away with a sad and empty feeling. –Most of us know that 
feeling. It’s not a pleasant feeling. Still we get over it. Usually, what’s at 
stake is not that important –a football match, or a concert, or some such 
thing. Life goes on; we survive and soon forget about it. But in Jesus’ story 
what is at stake in nothing less than our eternal salvation.Flor McCarthy in 
‘New Sunday & Holy Day Liturgies’
He wants the best for usA columnist, Scott Bennett, tells the story of a man 
‘Michael’, who was facing a series of devastating reversals in his life, 
leaving him desperate and defenseless. He had no job, his car had been 
repossessed, his marriage was ending, and his father had just died a month 
earlier. One night, in a frantic cry for help, Michael lifted up his face to 
the stars. And then the incredible happened. This is how he expressed it: “I 
felt I was one with…. call it God, call it creation… I don’t know. I do know I 
felt a peace that I have never known before or since. A power and a purpose was 
revealed to me that night that I cannot put in words. But I never doubted again 
that life is precious and has a purpose. –As Christians we are blessed with a 
faith that teaches us we have in God a compassionate father, whose thoughts are 
above ours as the heavens are above the earth. God who created us loves us, 
cares for us and will never cease pursuing what is best for us even if we fail 
out of human frailty. “What the caterpillar calls the end of the road, God 
calls a butterfly.”James Valladares in ‘Your words, O Lord, Are Spirit, and 
They Are Life’
God comes to us in spite of ourselves!A woman was at work when she received a 
phone call that her daughter was very sick with fever. She left her work and 
stopped by the pharmacy to pick up some medication for her daughter. On 
returning to her car she found that she had locked her keys in the car. She was 
in a hurry to get home to her sick daughter. She found a coat hanger there. 
Then she looked at the hanger and said, “I don’t know how to use this.” So she 
bowed her head and asked the Lord to send some help. A man got out of his car 
and asked her if he could help. “Please can you use this hanger to unlock my 
car?” she said. He said, “Sure.” He walked over to the car and in less than one 
minute, the car was opened. She hugged the man and through tears, she said, 
“Thank you so much! You are a very nice man.” The man replied, “Lady, I am not 
a nice man. I just got out of prison today. I was in prison for car theft and 
have only been out for about an hour.” The woman hugged the man again and with 
sobbing tears cried aloud, “Oh, Thank you God! You even sent me a 
professional!” –While we are all sinners, the Lord sees the good within us and 
keeps coming, knocking at the door of our hearts, encouraging us to come closer 
to him.Tomi Thomas in ‘Spice up your homilies’
End-time or Beginning-time?A wise monk was once playing in the fields when a 
friend asked him, “If God were to call you to himself right now, what would you 
do?” Without batting an eyelid the monk replied, “I’d continue playing here!” 
Blessed are those who live fully in the present, and fully prepared for any 
unforeseeable future. – On September 14, 2005, an Australian Jesuit colleague 
and friend Paddy Meagher, bade farewell to India after more than four decades 
of dedicated service here. He was suffering from melanoma (skin cancer) that 
has struck suddenly and spread over his face leaving lumps likely to affect his 
brain and throat. Bravely enduring his pain he said, “I know I’ll die soon and 
I’m prepared. Nonetheless, I’ll continue reading and writing until death 
comes!” Paddy died on January 5, 2006. For wise virgins like these, there is 
always oil in their lamps. And for many of the victims of earthquakes who call 
God Abba or Allah, what we see as end-time is more likely to be a 
beginning-time for the eternal wedding feast.Francis Gonsalves in ‘Sunday Seeds 
for Daily Deeds’
Cared for the least of his peopleThere were some eyebrows raised when John 
XXIII was elected pope. He was in his seventies and there was no great hope 
that he was going to shake the Church. One of the first things he did, however, 
made people sit up and notice. He went in person to visit prisoners in one of 
Rome’s prisons. He met them as equals and chatted informally with each. He even 
disclosed that he himself had a relative in jail! The work and short 
pontificate of this man was going to open many doors, and set many prisoners 
free.Jack McArdle in ‘And that’s the Gospel Truth’
Daily VigilanceThe image of this Sunday is a group - community holding high, 
torches aflame with hope. Today’s readings provide our parish community with a 
fine opportunity to recognize our countless private and public acts of kindness 
to others that have burned brightly as torches of hope to others. Sunday 
Eucharist is a time to replenish our lamps. – One day Julie returned from 
school to find her pet guinea pig was missing. She rushed to her mother to ask 
about it. Her mother said, “I gave it away because you did not take care of it. 
“But I did take care of it,” she said. “Julie, I gave it away ten days ago!” – 
Our watchfulness should be a daily thing. Keep vigil of your marriage. A 
separation/divorce happens with each other’s knowledge –caused by 
non-vigilance. Keep vigil of your faith, Vigilance is needed in seeking God and 
one another.John Pichappilly in ‘The Table of the Word’
May we make wise choices in our daily dealings inspired by God’s ever-present 
spirit! 
Fr. Jude Botelho botelhoj...@gmail.com
PS. The stories, incidents and anecdotes used in the reflections have been 
collected over the years from books as well as from sources over the net and 
from e-mails received. Every effort is made to acknowledge authors whenever 
possible. If you send in stories or illustrations I would be grateful if you 
could quote the source as well so that they can be acknowledged if used in 
these reflections. These reflections are also available on my Web site 
www.NetForLife.net Thank you.

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