Footprints of Existence
Birth and death are the two certainties of human life. Both are marked with ceremony — one welcomed with joy and celebration, the other observed with solemnity and reverence. Death closes the final chapter of an individual’s earthly journey. Obituaries, funeral orations, and religious rites — sometimes continuing for years — become formal expressions of remembrance. Across religions, customs and traditions are faithfully observed. Often, beneath these rituals lies a mixture of grief, guilt, fear of divine retribution, and a desire to demonstrate that the departed are not forgotten. Yet, once a person fades from our consciousness, they are, in a sense, buried eternally in memory. Whether remembered ceremonially or forgotten gradually matters little to the departed. It is disheartening that even close family members sometimes forget significant remembrance dates. But this raises a deeper question: what truly endures? There is nothing extraordinary in excelling academically, succeeding in business, or rising in any profession. Providing the best for one’s children, enjoying luxury, acquiring wealth, or attaining high social status often serves personal fulfillment and family pride. Society may applaud eminence, power, and position — but these rarely transform the collective good in a lasting way. At most, a name may linger for a century. Beyond that, it fades — unless it is anchored in meaningful social consequence. Many accumulate degrees and memberships in countless organizations, yet the enduring question remains: what lasting mark have they left in advancing values, justice, or human welfare? True identity is not forged by titles, monuments, or memorial niches. It is shaped by personal contributions toward the growth and well-being of others. No stone structure can immortalize a life lived only for itself. When we live for others, only then do we truly live long. Personal achievements may benefit oneself and one’s family. But it is social commitment — the giving of time, resources, compassion, and service — that leaves footprints worthy of remembrance. These footprints become paths of love and gratitude for others to follow. Nelson Lopes Chinchinim Nelson Lopes Chinchinim https://lopesnelsonnat.wordpress.com
