My daughter has requested that all of her wedding party, including the mothers 
of the bride and groom, wear black. The mothers will also be wearing tiaras.

Carmen

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> On Jan 27, 2016, at 11:06 AM, annbw...@aol.com wrote:
> 
> Actually, a dear friend of mine's mother-in-law chose a beige dress for 
> another of her children's weddings. And beige was just about the least 
> flattering color I could imagine for the dear lady. She may have been of a 
> generation where she took such advice seriously.
> 
> 
> Ann Wass
> 
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: R Lloyd Mitchell <rmitch...@washjeff.edu>
> To: Historical Costume <h-cost...@indra.com>
> Sent: Wed, Jan 27, 2016 12:48 pm
> Subject: Re: [h-cost] Wedding wear
> 
> Who follows these antiquated guidelines? And the insults they portray?! The 
> Dream may be the bride's but the occasion is also with expectations of 
> celebration for the mother's who get to be Themselves. Harmony and affinity 
> for the occasion seems to me to allow whatever one chooses. For daughter 31, 
> I wore a teal hand embroidered sundress with matching bolero jacket; my 
> daughter was wearing an antique eyelet gown (1879) .It was a farm garden 
> occasion.
> My other daughter chose  a  princess tea-length dress of white cotton 
> shantung..with jacket; The neckline and sleeve edgings were 
> embroidered..white on white. Her site was a Friend'd Meeting House. Both 
> mothers did wear varities of Beige after noon dresses. Harmonious  for the 
> occasion.
> La! _____________________________
> From: h-costume-boun...@indra.com <h-costume-boun...@indra.com> on behalf of 
> scourney <scour...@nwlink.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, January 27, 2016 10:47 AM
> To: Historical Costume
> Subject: Re: [h-cost] Wedding wear
> 
> I thought that was the comment for the mother of the groom - show up, shut 
> up, and wear beige. I'm a rapidly greying blonde with pale skin, and in beige 
> I'd be almost invisible. Which perhaps is the point.Susan
> 
> -------- Original message --------
> From: annbw...@aol.com
> Date: 01/27/2016  6:15 AM  (GMT-08:00)
> To: h-cost...@indra.com
> Subject: Re: [h-cost] Wedding wear
> 
> The mother of the bride wears beige and keeps quiet. But I would think 
> another color would be more fun.
> 
> 
> Ann Wass
> 
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: R Lloyd Mitchell <rmitch...@washjeff.edu>
> To: Historical Costume <h-cost...@indra.com>
> Sent: Wed, Jan 27, 2016 9:12 am
> Subject: Re: [h-cost] Wedding wear
> 
> Was at a 20s/30s wedding in June past...The 'other women' of the wedding 
> party all wore shades of beige silk and lace...including mothers and 
> grandmother.  The BMs had different styles (kneeish) Quite a lovely affair.
> ________________________________________
> From: h-costume-boun...@indra.com <h-costume-bouen...@indra.com> on behalf of 
> Susan <scour...@nwlink.com>
> Sent: Wednesday, January 27, 2016 3:09 AM
> To: Historical Costume
> Subject: Re: [h-cost] Wedding wear
> 
> Lace perhaps, but Not Beige.  Leaning toward a 30s formal inspired dress.
> 
> Susan
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: <annbw...@aol.com>
> To: <h-cost...@indra.com>
> Sent: Tuesday, January 26, 2016 1:46 AM
> Subject: Re: [h-cost] Wedding wear
> 
> 
>> NOT beige lace!
>> 
>> Ann Wass
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Deb Salisbury, Mantua-Maker <d...@mantua-maker.com>
>> To: h-costume <h-cost...@indra.com>
>> Sent: Mon, Jan 25, 2016 8:17 pm
>> Subject: [h-cost] Wedding wear
>> 
>> I'm no help, either. The last wedding I went to, here in Texas, everyone
>> but the bride came in jeans and cowboy boots. :-)
>> 
>> I'd love to go to a wedding in a bustle dress!
>> 
>>> My son is getting married next month in LA, and I have no idea what to
>>> make to wear to an afternoon wedding, with an evening reception. He
>>> wasn't much help (wear a bustle dress he said...  she said, whatever.)
>> 
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