Subject: Re: psikologi suami n isteri I think in a discussion we should open our mind see the other's point of view and sharing your knowledge with others. As I said every one is entitled for his/her opinion, then its up to the readers. Another thing we shouldn't use vulnerable words in discussion. I totally disagree the used of abusive language. Kata orang melayu, Bahasa jiwa bangsa…bahasa mencerminkan identity sesuatu bangsa kalau nak dikaitkan dengan agama, islam satu agama yang indah. Oleh itu berbincanglah secara intelektual.
Jangan terpengaruh dengan teori ciptaan omputeh > kafir yang bodoh, bengap > lagi bangang tuh. This really showed how narrow minded you are, sorry to say that.. kalau ada anak yang sebut perkataan 'bodoh' tu pun saya akan tampar, kecik mungkin terpengaruh dengan rakan, ni dah besar panjang??? Untuk pengetahuan saudara bukan semua orang puteh tu kafir, mereka kalau dah masuk islam lebih hebat dari orang islam sendiri tengok aja Cat Steven tu. Anyway this is not the main issue here. We are here to discuss a very interesting topic and I have some knowledge and experiences counseling marriage couples. I don't mind sharing my experiences but only if you can behave yourself and write in proper manner. ===================================================================================================Asalamualaikum ! sekadar mencelah... Betul laa tu Bahasa jiwa bangsa......tapi kalau kita nak betul berbahasa tak perlulah mencampur aduk kan bahasa inggeris dan bahasa melayu.... ;) kelihatanya dalam bab saikologi rumah tangga tinggi juga ilmunya... Tapi pelik juga ya... dalam mendidik anak hemm .. tak kan la anak mengunakan perkataan bodoh di tampar??..tak boleh ke gunakan saikologi atau cara lembut lain yang berkesan.... sekadar memikirkan apa yang di tulis aje.. :) dan satu lagi.. rasanye apa yang si saudara ruhaizan maksudkan tu ialah matsalih yang menulis buku tu aje..bukan nye suma matsalih...saya yang bodoh nih pon paham apa yang dimaksudkan.. OOPs jangan tampar saya ye.. Wallahuallam!... ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> In low income neighborhoods, 84% do not own computers. At Network for Good, help bridge the Digital Divide! http://us.click.yahoo.com/hjtSRD/3MnJAA/i1hLAA/TXWolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> -------------------------------------------------------------------------- All views expressed herein belong to the individuals concerned and do not in any way reflect the official views of Hidayahnet unless sanctioned or approved otherwise. If your mailbox clogged with mails from Hidayahnet, you may wish to get a daily digest of emails by logging-on to http://www.yahoogroups.com to change your mail delivery settings or email the moderators at [EMAIL PROTECTED] with the title "change to daily digest". Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hidayahnet/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/