Just to share with all of you. I do agree with "Malay Profesional".
Please read it on.... Very thankful for that gorgeous man with his excellent explanation and great thinking.... Well done Malay Man...!!A perfect compliment for all Malay sisters in this group.
Dear Editor:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Malay male readers. I
am a White female who is engaged to a Malay
male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of
Malay female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me
because the pickings amongst Malay women were slim to none.
As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative,
too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I
became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Malay
men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Malay women are
so up in arms about us being with their men,
why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the
dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public.
I would like to hear from some Malay men about why we are so appealing and
coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of, 26 years for one of
us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell
Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier,
Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy,
Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, ..I could go on and on.
But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so
hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want
us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat
your men better. If I'm wrong, Malay men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in Bangsar.
Read On.............
This letter was written in response to an article:
Response:
Dear Editor: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted
White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Malay man. I
graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in England with a
Masters Of Science Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a
Multinational Corporation and have recently purchased a
house and a brand new non-national car. So, I consider myself to be among
the ranks of successful Malay men. I will not use my precious time to
slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why Malay
men date white women.
Back in the days, one of the biggest reasons why Malay men dated white women
was because they were considered easy. The Malay girls in my neighborhood
were raised traditionally. They were very strict about when they lost their
virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait,
brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much
hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Malay males date white women because they
are docile and easy to control. A lot of Malay men, because of insecurities,
fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of
our Malay women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than
us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Malay men look for a more
docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous Malay men and they continuously comment on how
easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set
the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all
successful Malay men date white women. Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel
Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestn! ut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood,
Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married
strong Non-White women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white
men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White
women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a
few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed.
Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.
Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were
ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history!
It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food.
It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to raise your children. It
was Non-White women who were breastfeeding and raising your babies during
slavery. It is the Non-White woman that had to endure watching their
fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Malay
women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and being a
woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the Malay women's strength, elegance, power, love and
beauty that I could never date anyone except my Malay Queen. It is not just
the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact
that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Malay women. Their
strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to
overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe
in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential
while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have
fallen in love with Malay women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy
than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to
tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then
why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to
inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances
so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is
really a result of you wanting to
have what the Non-White woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over
and control, I would give you a call.
But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a
good wife and mother to my children.
Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking
for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed,
Malay Professional
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