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Assalamualaikum rakan netter hizbi..
saya juga mengenali rakan kenalan pn Pabiyen tsbt (of course via email)..
utk pengetahuan kenalan saya ni boleh saya panggil opah.. kerana usianya yg
hampir sebaya dgn opah saya (yg skrg ini terlantar sakit kerana lumpuh sebelah
badan..).. muslimah ini berusia 64 thn.. beliau kenal Islam pada usia 63 thn,
melalui pemuda2 saudi yg dtg berkunjung ke rumah beliau.. beliau menghidap
kanser (lung canser, kalau tak silap saya).. which at certain time she is
really physically unfit, batuk berdarah etc..
antara aktiviti seharian beliau adalah mentelaah tafsir AlQuran dan
membincangkan isi kandungannya dgn suaminya, beliau berharap penuh suaminya
akan jatuh cinta dgn Islam.. she just cant leave her husband, they have been
married for more tahn 30 yrs & her husband never object her on the new
religious, & was supportive enough to send her to the masjeed & any halaqah
(usrah)..
she has just reading some narrated hadith on anak perempuan rasulullah yg
disebut oleh ukhtie pabiyen.. she did fwd it to me.. may be I'll fwd it later
to hizbi.. mungkin ade yg boleh sahkan is those hadith sahih/hasan or
maudud..
btw, here is her lates email to the groups..
lastly nak quote pertanyaan kakak - is Islam really merciless in this issue ?
salam - mona
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As salaamu'aleikum
I have received many personal emails, at least 30, all concerned about me.
Many kind thoughts have been expressed. I thank all who contacted me.
Some expressed concern that I might leave Islam. This will NEVER ever happen
so do not be concerned.
For those sisters who are well meaning by advising me on what I should do to
leave my husband... your advise is well intentioned but is not accepted.
Becuse I am sick a lot and weak physically sometimes, I have become emotional
and less able to deal with things that trouble or hurt me... thus my angry
words and depression.
I have been in prayer a lot over the last few days (more than usual :)} and
have come to terms with some things.
First, my sins are between Allah and me. Second ...I will NEVER leave my
husband. If I were well and had all the money I could ever need... I will
never leave my husband. Third.. I will continue to call him husband because he
can be nothing else to me and it is already written in my heart. Fourth ..
sisters who cannot accept this, should just ignore me. I do not want anymore
"good intentions" on this matter as I am well aware of what the Muslim
community as a majority expects. I will do what I believe to be in my best
interests and not listen to any Muslim who "with good intentions" hurts my
spirit and undermines my struggle. This matter is between Allah and I.
With this said... I want to say that there is no reason for any member here to
feel anxious about me. I am waiting on results of tests and I have hope that
I will be in no worse condition than from the last tests.
I will remain a member, but have decided if I have any comments, I will post
to the individual of the post I am commenting on. I am not strong enough at
this time to take critisim as I am too emotional, when I become stronger..
then maybe I will react with more moderation.
I do apologize for my outburst, but maybe members here who have not ever faced
the challenges of a revert will understand the depths of pain and struggle in
the daily life of a revert. Perhaps they will consider their words carefully
before posting or sending them to a member who they believe is doing wrong.
Perhaps they will provide a message of acceptance of the person with their
"good intentioned" message of correction of the person's action.
Widad
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Assalamualaikum
Hukum perkahwinan:
1. Jika salah seorang memeluk Islam manakala seorang lagi masih kafir maka
tertalak secara automatik. Dan mereka wajib tinggal berasingan.
2. Jika dua-dua masuk islam maka taraf perkahwinan mereka kekal tetapi
sunat hukumnya untuk mengakadkan semula mereka mengikut cara islam. Kalau
tak buat pun tak per. Anak-anak yang belum akil baligh akan menjadi muslim
secara automatik bila both parent masuk islam.
Nota:
Kawan net puan ternyata telah bersekedudukan dengan bekas suami. Jangan
sampai berzina dengan bekas suami.
Kisah anak-anak nabi tu yang saya ingat, kalau tak silap ialah Siti rokiah
dan Zainab, mereka telah bercerai kerana anak nabi masuk islam, namun
setelah bercerai, bekas suami akhirnya masuk islam dan bersatu kembali
dengan isteri masing-masing.
wallahuaklam.
>From: Pabiyen Sitok <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>Subject: H-Net* Jatuhkah talak kerana bertukar agama
>Date: Tue, 10 Apr 2001 23:26:02 -0700 (PDT)
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>Seorang rakan net berbangsa Amerika baru saja kembali kepada Islam
>setahun yang lepas. Beliau sudah berumahtangga, tapi suaminya masih
>Kristian. Nak tanya netter yang arif, apakah status perkahwinan mereka
>sekarang? Adakah perkahwinan mereka sudah tidak sah hanya kerana dia
>memeluk Islam. Sister ni memang baik dan terlalu cintakan Islam.
>dalamasa yang sama dia amat menyayangi suami dia kerana suami dia juga
>terlalu baik. Selalu hantar dia ke mesjid, jaga makan-minum dia sebab
>dia selalu sakit dan pernah menyelamatkan nyawa dia. Suami dia pernah
>mengusulkan untuk memeluk Islam hanya untuk menjaga perkahwinan mereka,
>tapi dia melarang. Dia menyuruh suaminya memeluk Islam hanya bila dia
>sudah benar-benar dapat melihat kebenaran. Sekarang dia benar-benar
>tertekan kerana ramai yang mengatakan perkahwinan mereka tidak sah.
>
>Saya teringat kisah dua orang anak Rasulullah yang berkahwin dengan
>anak Abu Lahab(kalau tak silap). Apabila anak-anak Rasulullah kembali
>kepada baginda, baginda meminta mereka kembali kepada suami mereka.
>Hanya apabila suami-suami mereka benar-benar membenci Islam, barulah
>baginda menerima mereka. Saya ingat-ingat lupa sirah ini. Jika ada
>rakan netter yang dapat memberikan cerita penuh ahlan wasahlan.
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