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[10 Tips] How to be a Successful Husband
Prepared by Muhammad Alshareef
1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.
When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the
husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up
for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always
start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2. Use the cutest names for your wife
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that
they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names
that hurt their feelings.
3. Don’t treat her like a fly
We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife
will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does
something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she
does and focus on that.
4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment!
This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would
see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu ‘anhunn. It’s a technique
that few Muslim men have mastered.
5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.
Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life
with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah
- sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if
he was fasting.
6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again!
Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a
dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is
that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!
7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then
go and do them again.
It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a
guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.
8. Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her.
Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - sal
Allahu alayhi wa sallam - set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi
Allahu ‘anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He
wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.
9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife
Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha -
radi Allahu ‘anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?
10. Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam: “The
best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst
you to my family.”
Try to be the best!
In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - azza wa jall - to make your
marriage successful.
And Allah ta’ala knows best
[10 Tips] How to be a Successful Wife
Prepared by Muhammad Alshareef
10. Use your ‘Fitnah’ to win the heart of your husband
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah -
Azza wa Jal - has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband.
9. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a
dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what
would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.
8. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them
The Qur’an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such
as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc.
Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to ‘enlarge’ them, and sing
to your husband.
7. Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house.
>From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and
>bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur’an. As a wife, continue
>to use the jewelry that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband.
6. Joke and play games with your husband.
A mans secret: they seek women who are lighthearted and have a sense of humor. As
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told Jabir to marry someone who would make
him laugh and he would make her laugh.
5. Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does. Then thank him again.
This is one of the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of
the women of hellfire.
4. An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it with a simple ‘I’m sorry’ even if
it is not your fault.
When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an
argument will end when you just say sincerely, “Look, I’m sorry. Let’s be friends.”
3. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah.
Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - taught us that any women who dies in a
state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So .. please him.
2. Listen and Obey!
Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him
that right and respect.
1. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful.
All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah ta'ala for the blessing of
having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy
of Allah ta'ala - into Jannah.
And Allah ta'ala knows best
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