joyce ... you misinterpret what i am saying ... you are missing it ... are twisting my words ... putting YOUR spin on them. (why does this seem familiar?)
i am not talking about you accusing me of this current problem you have ... with the stolen ID and all. never implied that. i am talking about your tendency for paranoia and for imagining the worst. i see it even in this last post. i have experienced this first hand. for the record: you DID accuse me of stalking you. not now ... not in this incident ... that is NOT what i am saying. but you DID accuse me in the past. you didn't say it to me ... but you did say so to others. even had them believing you for awhile ... had them avoiding interacting with me ... wondering what kind of an asshole i was ... until they got to know me for themselves. that took a lot of work on my part. i had to find out from them joyce ... it is they who told me what you had said ... and why they were reluctant to interact with me. that is the slander i am speaking of. and i don't appreciate it. i have also heard you accuse others in the same way. in fact, i used to believe you too. they don't appreciate it either. and it is THAT paranoia and imagining of enemies that i am trying to address here ... that i am suggesting you to take a look at. wondering if this is part of some larger pattern. i am not the enemy. you asked what others think. now you know. and i am tired of playing this little game. i'm done. -ts- the bad guy ~~~ --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], Know Mystery <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Hi ts - > > --- ts wrote: > > --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], Know Mystery > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > wrote: > > > > > > > > Sorry ts, but it was not of use to me. > > > It feels pretty insensitive, > > > although i know you are trying to be kind and helpful. > > > > ah ... > > > > well it wasn't intended to be insensitive ... > > just offering you some perspective. > > an alternate way to look at things. > > you did ask. remember? > > I asked people this: > > "Maybe people here can find a different explanation for what has happened besides the two scenarios i came up with?" > > > i actually thought you might find some of this > > to be of use. > > > > not everyone is the enemy joyce ... > > i have never said that to be the case... > > > > not everyone is stalking you. > > i have never said that, either. > > > > i bring this up because ... > > you have accused me of being/doing just that in the > > past ... > > no ts - i never accused you of stalking me or pretending to be me or sending mails logged in as using my id... > > > > and we both know that was total bullshit ... > > ts - i never under any circumstances said that of you. i did NOT accuse you of stealing my identity or posing as me writing emails or stalking me. > > > existing only in your imagination. > > well ... > > at least i do. > > it feels as though you are turning this around to be about "you" - it is not about you... i wasn't thinking of you when i wrote the post... > > > > > fyi ... > > slander is also illegal. > > These are the facts - i received a suspicious email today and wrote to this list about it, as i have written here in the past about strange mails because people here have good heads - technical knowledge and kind intentions and are generally helpful. In my mail today i said that "i know you are trying to be kind and helpful." There is no slander there. I have not accused you of anything. I do not think that you have done anything wrong. Why are you accusing me of that? > > > > > please feel free to consider this/me to be > > insensitive ... > > if that's what you need to do. > > ts, if you reread your first mail, you might be able to see several instances where you invalidate my experience of this morning by saying that it had never happened to you. > > I said xyz happened to me,,, and you said well, xyz had never happened to you, and you talked about me being able to use it as a lesson, an > > "> perhaps an opportunity to meditate on ... > > what is "real" ... > > and what is "imaginary" ... " > > Don't you see how implying that something is "imaginary" is a way of invalidating a person's experience? Of implying that they just imagined the whole thing? Do you see how a person might not receive that perspective from you in a positive way? > > > > > whatever works. > > > > well ... > > not the first time i've been slapped for > > trying to help. > > ts - i gave you credit for trying to be kind and helpful. I did not slap you and did not patronize you, as it felt when you suggested that i look at what is imaginary and what is real. > > > and probably not the last. ;) > > > > -ts- > > > > > all i can say is that nothing in my post today implied that you were in anyway involved in the suspicious mail and that i again recognize that you were trying in your own way to be helpful and kind. You tried and i acknowledged that. I don't know what more you want me to say. > > love and peace to all, > joyce ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Yahoo! 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