>GROWING WITH SOMEONE
>
>This is for all:
>
>the ones who recently married,
>the ones who have been married,
>the ones who soon to get married, and
>the ones who are still looking.
>
>
>Years ago, I asked God to give me a spouse, "You don't own because you
>didn't ask" God said. Not only I asked for a spouse but also explained
>what kind of spouse I wanted. I want a nice, tender, forgiving,
>passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm,
>intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful spouse. I
>even mentioned the physical characteristics I dream about. As time went by
>I added the required list of my wanted spouse.
>
>One night, in my prayer, God talked to my heart: "My servant, I cannot
>give you what you want"
>
>I asked, "Why God?"
>
>God said "Because I am God and I am fair. God is the truth and all I do
>are true and right"
>
>I asked "God, I don't understand why I cannot have what I ask from you?".
>
>God answered, "I will explain. It is not fair and right for Me to fulfill
>your demand, because I cannot give something that is not your own self. It
>is not fair to give someone who is full of love to you if sometimes you
>are still hostile, or to give you someone generous but sometimes you can
>be cruel, or someone forgiving; however, you still hide revenge, someone
>sensitive however, you are very insensitive....".
>
>God then said to me : "It is better for Me to give you someone who I know
>could grow to have all qualities you are searching rather than to make you
>waste your time to find someone who already have the qualities you want.
>Your spouse would be bone from your bone and flesh from your flesh and
>you will see yourself in her and both of you will be one.
>
>Marriage is like a school. It is a life-long an education. It is where you
>and your partner make adjustment and aim not merely to please each other,
>but to be better human beings and to make a solid teamwork. I do not give
>you a perfect partner, because you are not perfect either. I give you a
>partner with whom you would grow with."
>
>
>
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