>>> Thinking about it since it happened I've been wondering why he would do >>> that -- could he have been trying to groom me, or would it be some other >>> reason? It didn't hurt, or pinch, it was like a soft grab.
Sometimes I think horses can be too...I don't know... too uncomfortable with people to let their guard down to play. I do want my horses to be well-behaved, and I don't tolerate biting, but I don't want them behaving because they are scared. You're right, you don't want him doing that, but from what you've described, I think it might be a good sign in some ways. I warned Jacki that Cali might get to the point where she's a little "bad" at times, but not to worry about it...just correct it, but don't make a big deal over it and move on. I think Cali wanted sooo badly to get the attention we were giving her that she was always on her Sunday-school-best behavior, trying extra hard to please us. I loved her for it, but I also think it's important that horses know we love them no matter what, so they can truly relax. So, odd as it sounds, I think a LITTLE bit of overly-brave.. just a little... "bad" behavior can be a good thing, signaling that he's settling in. I will be very surprised if he makes a habit of it though - he was probably just testing the waters, to see what is, and isn't allowed in his happy new home. I doubt he was trying to hurt you - how would he know how much it takes to hurt a human? Now he knows... :) Karen Thomas, NC
