Gak perlu feel so bad about it, John. Tidak ada temporal cold war. Yang ada yang difference of POV.
Waktu kamu tanya, saya menjawab sesuai POV saya. Tetapi ternyata Kang Budi menganggap bahwa POV saya mewakili POV dia dan Eri sehingga dia membalas e-mail saya, dan bukannya e-mail anda. Saya justru merasa tersanjung karena my voice dianggap bisa mewakili POV seseorang atau banyak orang.. he he he.. Saya hanya gak suka cara Kang Budi menulis yang mengesankan bahwa saya tidak boleh dan sangat salah dalam memberikan opini tentang sesuatu. Karena itu saya bertanya menegaskan, takut salah persepsi: "Is it personal?" But he didn't answer my question. So, the problem is not with me. Although I do not like the way this board dedicated the 'database' to, I follow the rules and had erased my collection from it, without questioning the decision. If voicing my opinion makes anyone angry, I don't care. I'm not asking anyone to agree with me. I simply stated my POV over the matter of the database. I don't even care if I'm the only person who thinks that way or this way, because I have my own way of looking at things. The problem is with the person who thinks that my Point Of View is regarded as being voiced on behalf of himself and/or others. FYI, I never write or voice anything other than my very own views and never feel the necessity to be represented by others in order to be able to state opinions. So, I don't think ada cold war yang berhubungan dengan gue. Tapi kalau tanya ada yang marah atau tersinggung karena gue... mungkin banyak kali... he he he... who cares? I wanna have fun and I want to express opinions. Kalau ada yang gak suka... it's none of my problem. Salam, Indie --- In [email protected], "John" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Wah ... Wah ... > > > > /to Indie: Gw paham kok tentang perasaan 'sayang' ama barang koleksi, > krn itu gw tanya apa bisa 'pinjam-meminjam' antar member - dengan kata > lain - apakah si pemilik ngga kuatir / sayang kalau koleksinya > dipinjam orang yg tidak dikenal? > > /to Eri: Your answer is the diplomatic one. Mungkin Anda cocok > berperan jadi Ambassador yah :] > > /to Budiss: It's just miscommunication, perhaps. Ingat episode > Enterprise season 1: Archer mengirim T'pol, Hoshi, Malcolm utk > menolong Klingon yg terjebak di gas giant, tapi malah diserang balik? > [kalo ngga salah, judulnya 'Sleeping Dogs'] > Demikian juga masing2 orang punya "prinsip" yang kalau di Startrek > dapat diumpamakan sebagai 'alien races' yang mempunyai 'character' > yang berlainan. >
