Since time immemorial we have not been leaving any oppurtunity to 
eulogize our so called rich cultural heritage, handed down to us by our 
fore-father. It would have been rich had it carried the values required to have 
a society based on love, affection for elder ones and brother hood. Those were 
days when the words father and mother made us filled with love and compassion. 
The story of Shravan Kumar used to appeal our emotions. For anything and 
everything we owed to our parents. We well realized the sacrifice and pain our 
mother undergoes while begetting and to enable us to survive in the brutal 
world. This was gelling factor and the strongest thread of of our social 
fabrication.But what happened to those feelings. How did we become numb to 
these sentiments? Why did we become morally anaemic? How did the idea of Old 
Age Home come in our mind? A home which houses unfortumate father and mother, 
who are compelled to stay there when their own house, telling untold story of 
their suffering they bear to build, become too small to accomodate them and 
their son and daughter who are indebted to them for their every breath become 
alien.The mercurising number of Old Age Home is the culminating popint of 
Occidentalism, which has gnawed our culture and pushed it in its nadir. It has 
made us hollow in spirituality and got the theory of utility settled down in 
our mind which believes in usefulness of the thing or in other words 
materialism. This is why before a father or mother reaches their superannuation 
and they fetch salary or some material gain they get place in their own home. 
But after that things become unbearable. They have to hear poison ladden words. 
This continues for some days and ends in an Old Age Home.Isn't it a moment to 
take a pause and think and try to restore our lost love, sffection and 
compassion for our parents so that the stigma of Old Age Home may be removed 
from country. And this is only possible if we go back to our religious 
sculptures understand and implement the Do's and Dont's on our life. As every 
religion advocates for the highest love and affection for parents.
Abdur Rehman
DHAROHAR

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