In a message dated 10/22/01 4:13:33 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: >No one blames the victims. That is not, in my opinion, an apt description >of >the reality.
OK, I apologize if I'm being overly defensive. I do think that it's very hard for me to hear criticism without taking that immediate leap to feeling blamed. sometimes, this all makes me wish for early childhood again when things had easy answers (or science. I majored in physics, at least there was an answer to your questions). People hurry by so quickly Don't they hear the melodies In the chiming and the clicking And the laughing harmonies - Joni Mitchell