> The problem of course, Lori, is that despite the fancy that we > are all "friends of spirit" these off-topic discussions (specifically > those on religion, politics and sexuality) have led in the past to > anger, bitterness, people leaving the list and broken friendships.
Of course you're right, Steve, and isn't it a damn shame? But I continue to fancy that we're all "friends of spirit" because that phrase came from Joni and it's our love of Joni that brought us here in the first place. For example, politically I am usually 180 degrees out of phase with Kakki, but I've been to her home (come to think of it, you were there too!) and aside from political opinions, I love the way Kakki thinks and she makes a damn fine martini besides. (This, from someone who otherwise hates martinis.) Actually, I love the way Kakki thinks about any topic, despite disagreeing with her on politics! (Kakki, I'm not picking on you; it's just an example. Are you coming to JoniFest this year??) I continue to be a naive impossible dreamer, perhaps, but I believe the members of this list can all agree to respectfully disagree about ANYTHING and still be friends and come out smiling. (Would someone please pass that doobie over here?) Those who can't ... well, they're just missing out on the other wonderful stuff that goes on here! : ) > You like these discussions. I respectfully disagree with you. I do like them. And I agree, with tremendous respect, that you have the right to disagree. Lori