Hi Friends, Sebastian inspired me to share my experience as well. My parents asked my permission to look for a girl. I said it is you decided everything until now. So you will choose my girl. They were very happy hearing that. I was in Singapore that time.
They arranged marriage and informed me the date of betrothal and wedding!! I did not even saw a photo my girl. I took leave and got married to the same girl. She is a true gift for me from God. When my parents were planing, here in Singapore there was a prayer group praying for me to guide my parents to choose the best. How God acted? Believe.. what you are going to read is true .. That time there was another strong proposal for "my girl" from a rich family. They have decided to fix that. The day before giving world they all went to Church and prayed. That night my father -in-law saw a dream of cremation and he was there. He got scared and rejected that proposal. Next choice (but God's first choice) was mine. The same they did. All went to Church and prayed one day before giving us word. That night he dreamt a marriage feast. He was walking around and talking to everyone happily. They FIXED my proposal.. Let me repeat the "words of Sebastian" > Blessed are those who get married with the one selected by God for you. > Blessed are those who wait and discern Gods plans before falling and get > fractured. Praise the Lord Wilson Thomas Singapore ----- Original Message ----- From: "Sebastian Kakkasseri" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Wednesday, February 26, 2003 6:44 PM Subject: [JOYnet] Don't fall and get fractured > Dear Gigu, > > i forward it to u as my previous mails are not coming in joynet. > tk > seb > > This is my own story > > Before my marriage, one of my friends brought a proposal for me from Kuwait. > She was also working here. We introduced each other, talked, understood each > other etc. etc.. Then What? > > Next step is decision making, but before that discernment. I prayed to God, > but didnt get any discernment (I didnt know the tricks of Dr.Sindhu). Then > I made a suggestion, let us leave it for our parents to make the final > decision, until that we will wait(I am also tricky know?). My discernment > was this that God will speak through our parents. > > Later our parents started enquiries, discussions etc. and finally they > disagreed each other for some silly reasons. > > Now we had two choices. > > (1) We are matured, have good jobs and can insist our parents to forget > about the disagreements and to go ahead with wedding arrangements. > > Or > > (2) To obey our parents and keep our relationship as good friends. > > I selected the 2nd one (that was my discerning point) and called her to > inform it. I was little bit scared because I didnt know her stand. But for > my surprise, before I start, she was advising me to select the 2nd as she > already selected it. > > You might be laughing, .as...wearefools. Am I right? But I would like to > mention a few points. > > We were not lovers, means no commitments. So there was no disappointment > also. > > I was well aware about Gods plans, though it was not clear for me. So no > chance for any jumps or falls. > > Blessed are those who get married with the one selected by God for you. > Blessed are those who wait and discern Gods plans before falling and get > fractured. > > (Dont worry if anybody fractured already, Lord can repair even a fractured > relationship) > > > Sebastian Kuwait > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. > http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail > > ============================================================================ === > This mail is generated from JOYnet, a Jesus Youth mailing list. > For more info on the list visit http://www.jesusyouth.org/joynet > To unsubscribe from the list send a mail to [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To subscribe to the list visit http://www.jesusyouth.org/joynet/join > In case of any issue related to the mailing list contact [EMAIL PROTECTED] > ============================================================================ === =============================================================================== This mail is generated from JOYnet, a Jesus Youth mailing list. For more info on the list visit http://www.jesusyouth.org/joynet To unsubscribe from the list send a mail to [EMAIL PROTECTED] To subscribe to the list visit http://www.jesusyouth.org/joynet/join In case of any issue related to the mailing list contact [EMAIL PROTECTED] ===============================================================================
