Tales in a Kabul Restaurant
by Kathy Kelly / May 21st, 2013

Kabul — Since 2009, Voices for Creative Nonviolence has maintained a grim 
record we call the “The Afghan Atrocities Update” which gives the dates, 
locations, numbers and names of Afghan civilians killed by NATO forces. Even 
with details culled from news reports, 
these data can’t help but merge into one large statistic, something 
about terrible pain that’s worth caring about but that is happening very far 
away.
It’s one thing to chronicle sparse details about these U.S. led NATO 
attacks. It’s quite another to sit across from Afghan men as they try, 
having broken down in tears, to regain sufficient composure to finish 
telling us their stories. Last night, at a restaurant in Kabul, I and 
two friends from the Afghan Peace Volunteers met with five Pashtun men 
from Afghanistan’s northern and eastern provinces. The men had agreed to tell 
us about their experiences living in areas affected by regular 
drone attacks, aerial bombings and night raids. Each of them noted that 
they also fear Taliban threats and attacks. “What can we do,” they 
asked, “when both sides are targeting us?”
The First Responder’s Tale
Jamaludeen, an emergency medical responder from Jalalabad, is a large man, with 
a serious yet kindly demeanor. He began our conversation by 
saying that he simply doesn’t understand how one human being can inflict so 
much harm on another. Last winter, NATO forces fired on his cousin, 
Rafiqullah, age 30, who was studying to be a pediatrics specialist.
A suicide bomber had apparently blown himself up near the airport. My cousin 
and two other men were riding in a car on a road 
leading to the airport. It was 6:15 AM. When they’d realized that NATO 
helicopters and tanks were firing missiles, they had left their car and 
huddled on the roadside, but they were easily seen. A missile exploded 
near them, seriously wounding Rafiqullah and another passenger, while 
killing their driver, Hayatullah.
Hayatullah, our friend told us, was an older man, about 45 years old, who left 
behind a wife, two boys and one daughter.
Although badly wounded, Rafiqullah and his fellow passenger could 
still speak. A U.S. tank arrived and they began pleading with the NATO 
soldiers to take them to the hospital. “I am a doctor,” said 
Rafiqullah’s fellow passenger, a medical student named Siraj Ahmad. 
“Please save me!” But the soldiers handcuffed the two wounded young men 
and awaited a decision about what to do next. Rafiqullah died there, by 
the side of the road. Still handcuffed, Siraj Ahmad was taken, not to a 
hospital, but to the airport, perhaps to await evacuation. That was 
where he died. He was aged 35 and had four daughters. Rafiqullah, aged 
30, leaves three small girls behind.
And Jamaludeen knows that those girls, in one sense are lucky. Four 
years ago, he tried to bring first aid as an early responder to a 
wedding party attacked by NATO forces. Only he couldn’t, because there 
were no survivors. 54 people were killed, all of them (except for the 
bridegroom) women and children. “It was like hell,” said Dr. Jamaludeen. “I saw 
little shoes, covered with blood, along with pieces of clothing 
and musical instruments. It was very, very terrible to me. The NATO 
soldiers knew these people were not a threat.”
The Manual Laborer’s Tale
Kocji, who makes a living doing manual laborer, is from a village of 
400 families. His story took place three weeks ago. It started with a 
telephoned warning that Taliban forces had entered the Surkh Rod 
district of Jalalabad, which is where his village is located. That day, 
at about 10:00 p.m., NATO forces entered his village en masse. Some 
soldiers landed on rooftops and slid expertly to the ground on rope 
ladders. When they entered homes, they would lock women and children in 
one room while they beat the men, shouting questions as the women and 
children screamed to be released. On this raid, no one was killed, and 
no one was taken away.
It turned out that NATO troops had acted on a false report and 
discovered their error quickly. False reports are a constant risk. – In 
any village some families will feud with each other, and NATO troops can be 
brought into those feuds, unwittingly and very easily, and sometimes with 
deadly consequences. Kocji objects to NATO forces ordering attacks without 
first asking more questions and trying to find out whether or 
not the report is valid. He’d been warned of a threat from one 
direction, but the threats actually come from all sides.
The Student’s Tale
Rizwad, a student from the Pech district of the Kunar province, spoke next.
Twenty-five days ago, between 3 and 4 a.m., twelve children were 
collecting firewood in the mountains not far from his village. The 
children were between 7 and 8 years old. Rizwad actually saw the fighter plane 
flying overhead towards the mountains. When it reached them, it 
fired on the twelve children, leaving no survivors. Rizwad’s 8 year old 
cousin, Nasrullah, a schoolboy in the third grade, was among the dead 
that morning.
The twelve children belonged to eight families from the same village. When the 
villagers found the bloodied and dismembered bodies of their 
children, they gathered together to demand from the provincial 
government some reason as to why NATO forces had killed them. “It was a 
mistake,” they were told.
“It is impossible for the people to talk with the U.S. military,” 
says Rizwad. “Our own government tries to calm us down by saying they 
will look into the matter.”
The Farmer’s  Tale
Riazullah from Chapria Marnu spoke next. Fifteen days previously, 
three famers in Riazullah’s area had been working to irrigate their 
wheat field. It was early afternoon, about 3:30 p.m. One of the men was 
only eighteen – he had been married for five months. The other two 
farmers were in their mid-forties. Their names were Shams Ulrahman, 
Khadeem and Miragah, and Miragah’s two little daughters were with them.
Eleven NATO tanks arrived. One tank fired missiles which killed the 
three men and the two little girls. “What can we do?” asked Riazullah. 
“We are caught between the Taliban and the internationals. Our local 
government does not help us.”
The Story of US/NATO Occupation
The world doesn’t seem to ask many questions about Afghan civilians 
whose lives are cut short by NATO or Taliban forces. Genuinely concerned U.S. 
friends say they can’t really make sense of our list – news 
stories merge into one large abstraction, into statistics, into 
“collateral damage,” in a way that comparable (if much smaller and less 
frequent) attacks on U.S. civilians do not. People here in Afghanistan 
naturally don’t see themselves as a statistic; they wonder why the NATO 
soldiers treat civilians as battlefield foes at the slightest hint of 
opposition or danger; why the U.S. soldiers and drones kill unarmed 
suspects on anonymous tips when people around the world know suspects 
deserve safety and a trial, innocent until proven guilty.
“All of us keep asking why the internationals kill us,” said 
Jamaludeen. “One reason seems to be that they don’t differentiate 
between people. The soldiers fear any bearded Afghan who wears a turban 
and traditional clothes. But why would they kill children? It seems they have a 
mission. They are told to go and get the Taliban. When they go 
out in their planes and their tanks and their helicopters, they need to 
be killing, and then they can report that they have completed their 
mission.”
These are the stories being told here. NATO and its constituent 
nations may have other accounts to give of themselves, but they aren’t 
telling them very convincingly, or well. The stories told by bomb blasts or by 
shouting home-invading soldiers drown out other competing 
sentiments and seem to represent all that the U.S./NATO occupiers ever 
came here to say. We who live in countries that support NATO, that 
tolerate this occupation, bear responsibility to hear the tales told by 
Afghans who are trapped by our war of choice. These tales are part of 
our history now, and this history isn’t popular in Afghanistan. It 
doesn’t play well when the U.S. and NATO forces state that we came here 
because of terrorism, because of a toll in lost civilian lives already 
exceeded in Afghanistan during just the first three months of a 
decade-long war – that we came in pious concern over precious stories 
that should not be cut short.
Kathy Kelly co-coordinates Voices for Creative Nonviolence. Visit www.vcnv.org 
for a resource packet on drone warfare. Read other articles by Kathy.

http://dissidentvoice.org/2013/05/tales-in-a-kabul-restaurant/


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