I very frequently receive LUG e-mails out of order: the answer received before the question; the appeal to move on received after yet more dead-horse-flogging; or a promptly-sent great answer received sometime after I post my not-so-great answer. :-)
So, I suggest that we don't count on timely back and forth interactions, as if this were a chat room. And I suggest that we all have a thick skin after posting, since replies sometimes sound 'grumpy' or hostile even when they weren't intended to be so. Also, if a reply asks for a clarification of the original question, that is a good thing -- it shows an intention to provide the most relevant help. Of course any topic that appears to touch on a legal, ethical, or religious question should be addressed in a technical, non-judgemental way. Ward (whose grandpa married his half first cousin) ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jerry" <jerrysemailgro...@gmail.com> To: <LegacyUserGroup@LegacyUsers.com> Sent: Sunday, September 18, 2011 4:01 PM Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Marriage To Cousins Thanks Debra. Your email just came to me, somehow got out of order. Thanks for the comment. Jerry - MerriamFamilyTree.org On 9/18/2011 3:06 PM, Debra Newton-Carter wrote: > In response to Jerry, at times I do add such notes because I am a family > reunion historian where there are MANY marriages to cousins due to living > in > a geographically isolated area. People in the family are always asking me > to > give them the exact relationship, and I have even presented charts& given > talks about double cousins...it can get complicated. > > DebraNC > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Jerry"<jerrysemailgro...@gmail.com> > To:<LegacyUserGroup@LegacyUsers.com> > Sent: Sunday, September 18, 2011 9:08 AM > Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Marriage To Cousins > > > Some people on the list are way too jumpy. The question has nothing to do > with legalities or ethics. What I intended to ask is if anyone creates a > simple note as part of a custom event, such as "married second cousin." > Right now, I do include a very short note, but I use the standard marriage > event, not custom. That sounds right to me, especially after seeing your > comments. Thanks! > > cranberryf...@cobridge.tv wrote: > >> I don't do anything different at all. I have many cousin marriages. >> >> michele >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: Jerry >> Sent: Saturday, September 17, 2011 11:41 PM >> To: LegacyUserGroup@LegacyUsers.com >> Subject: [LegacyUG] Marriage To Cousins >> >> Just curious what some of you might do to document marriages between >> cousins. Do you create a marriage event, and if so, what do you call >> that event? 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