Being one's cousin isn't that big a stretch. Consider the following ...


Many, many years ago, when I was twenty three, I got married to a widow, pretty as could be. This widow had a grown-up daughter, with flowing hair of red. My father fell in love with her, and soon the two were wed. This made my dad my son-in-law, and changed my very life. Now my daughter was my mother, for she was my father's wife. To complicate the matters worse, although it brought me joy. I soon became the father of a bouncing baby boy. My little baby then became a brother-in-law to dad. And so became my uncle, though it made me very sad. For if he was my uncle, then that also made him brother To the widow's grown-up-daughter who, of course, was my step-mother. Father's wife then had a son, who kept them on the run. And he became my grandson, for he was my daughter's son, My wife is now my mother's mother and it makes me blue. Because, although she is my wife, she's my grandma too. If my wife is my grandmother, then I am her grandchild. And every time I think of it, it simply drives me wild. For now I have become the strangest case you ever saw. As the husband of my grandmother, I am my own grandpa!



At 2004/08/02 07:50 PM, you wrote:
Just my 2 cents for what it is worth. How can one be a cousin to oneself
since relationships are amongst 2 different people??? Is it because 2
brothers married 2 sisters and then decided to switch partners and have
children with their partners too? I can't comprehend being a cousin to
oneself.

Donna

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Sent: August 2, 2004 6:29 PM
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Subject: Re: [LegacyUG] Version 5, 1 Aug04 Relationship Calulator


Hi, Lill Ann, I'm going to weigh in here. You wrote: "As an example, my gr gr grandmother was married twice. Her second marriage was to a person who is a 2 cousin rx4 (relationship to me). She had two children. They both show correctly as Half great grandaunt, but both of them also married (relationship to me) 4 cousin r1 and 2 cousin r3. Both had children. All of the children display relationships based on the 4 cousin and 2 cousin relationships NOT from my half great grandaunts."

Earlier today I posted a problem wherein Legacy could not  find the 3C1R
relationship between my brother-in-law and his son.  The  source of the
problem
appears to be that Legacy is not programmed to find  multiple relationships
for
the same individual, i.e., my brother-in-law is a 3C  to himself and it is
from that he is a 3C1R to his own son.  For example,  in the relationship
calculator enter yourself on both sides of the dialog  box.  You'll get an
error
message.

I am certainly no programming  expert, but I suspect that you have a similar
problem, i.e., it is not that  Legacy can't find half-relationships, rather
somewhere in your data I've quoted,  that "Joe Brown" is a cousin to himself
and
it is at that point the relationship  calculator is failing.

Permit me to make a suggestion.  (I realize  that you've complained about
this since v2.)  Export a stripped GEDCOM with  only names and dates/places
of
b/m/d.  Send that to tech support with a  detailed message, including names
and
RINs, of where Legacy is correctly finding  the relationships and at what
point the calculations fail.

Ken did tell  me that this issue is a priority and the more detailed data
everyone can  provide, the quicker the problem can be resolved.
Jon Raymond
St. Paul  Park, MN
http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~raymond

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