-- I don't use TMDA on my personal, just on my lists and role addresses (-owner, -admin, postmaster, webmaster, etc). FWLIW this is not due to any concern over offense, but rather more simply because my SPAM/virus filters are already effective enough to keep my junk rate in my personal mailboxes to single digit message counts per day -- not enough problem to warrant messing with.
But my role addresses are the ones most likely to be written to by naive users.
And since many lists I get have the reply-to-sender deal where people end up replying to all, they would get confirmation requests that would just be a hassle.
-- None have complained about either the confirmation process, or the fact that they had to confirm.
We get people complaining about having to confirm subscribes and unsubscribes, let alone posts -- not just that it's too obscure, but that it's a hassle and they don't really care what effect it has on our spam.
-- I use a modified version of the default TMDA confirmation request:Frankly, when I've gotten a TMDA confirmation request, I've more often gone to the telephone than bothered.
