I'm a hobbyist and read a few books but not practiced extensively. I've read Nonviolent Communication, which becomes a particular form of transformative mediation when you get into it.
NVC is designed to be able to enter any situation in a way that supports the people in that situation, but it needs to be done by someone who has experience doing so in the particular situation. Unfortunately it is not widely addressed that this experience is often gained by error rather than planning. Is that maybe what you are talking about? I don't have the capacity to address all this but it sounds like you have been exposed to some situations where attempts to support people have inadvertently hurt them. It would be wonderful to provide for learning around that, to prevent it. On Wed, Jun 10, 2020, 7:40 PM Julian Oliver <[email protected]> wrote: > ..on Wed, Jun 10, 2020 at 10:58:23AM -0700, Rob Myers wrote: > > On 2020-06-10 10:22 a.m., fuzzyTew wrote: > > > > > > The right mediation might help people participating in opposing efforts > > > grow understanding of each other, so they can struggle in support of > > > each other rather than conflict. > > People who don't want to be killed struggling in support of the people > > who want to kill them doesn't seem like the best idea. > > > > But that isn't the problem here. The problem is griefing, and mediating > > that simply enables it. > > > > So no. > > > > Don't do that. > > > > Agreed. I've seen be ruinous in activist movements I've been involved > with, presently a struggle in several large chapters of Extinction > Rebellion. > It's important to understand that many don't want less conflict, rather > more of > it; they don't want resolution, rather to control, to dominate. > Just as a burglary is not 'a dispute over property', seeking to mediate > between > a community and a troll group only nourishes a culture of abuse. > Re-framing an > attack as a 'perspective' is a device diversely employed by the far and > 'alt' > right. > > Cheers, > > Julian > > -- > Liberationtech is public & archives are searchable from any major > commercial search engine. Violations of list guidelines will get you > moderated: https://lists.ghserv.net/mailman/listinfo/lt. Unsubscribe, > change to digest mode, or change password by emailing > [email protected].
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