Wow, impressive, she knows the truth what is the Buddha’s teaching, without 
labeling, and fully understand what Vipassana is.

This is rare, the person who had catholic background and now she can see the 
main of the truth, the truth is the present and no self.

She is really the child of the Buddha, salute you Nina.

 

 

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Subject: [MABINDO] Interview with Nina van Gorkom by Robert Kirkpatrick

 

  


Nina van Gorkom was born in 1928 to a family of socialist intellectuals. Her 
father was a member of the Dutch parliament. She studied at Leyden University 
and during this time she became a catholic. In 1952, she married Lodewijk van 
Gorkom, a Dutch diplomat. 

In 1965, Lodewijk was posted to Thailand and Nina started learning Thai 
language. 

  

She took a keen interest in Buddhism, attending classes for foreigners at Wat 
Mahathat. There she met, in the summer of 1966, Sujin Boriharnwanaket. 
Impressed by the profundity of the Buddhist teachings, she became convinced of 
the truth of the Buddha’s words and later assisted Khun Sujin in discussions 
about Buddhism for Thai radio stations. These talks were later published as 
Buddhism in Daily Life, her first book.  

  

Nina and Lodewijk left Thailand in 1970 and lived in Japan, New York, Indonesia 
(where Lodewijk was the Dutch ambassador) and Austria. Lodewijk retired in 1990 
and they now live in The Hague in Holland.  

  

Nina’s writings are well-known amongst English speaking Buddhists, and she is 
highly respected in Thailand where several of her books have been translated 
into Thai language with (after many reprints) over one hundred thousand copies 
now. Her books have also been translated in Sri Lanka, Indonesia, Nepal and 
Germany. 

 

 

What started your interest in Buddhism? 
When I came to Thailand, I was impressed with the kindness and graciousness of 
Thai people. I wanted to understand their culture. Once I began to study 
Buddhism, I wanted to apply it to my life rather than just learn it as a 
philosophy. After I met Sujin Boriharnwanaket I was able to ask any number of 
questions. I just kept coming and asking. Her answers always related to nama 
and rupa (mind and matter), to the realities that we experience every moment in 
daily life.  

 

How did studying Buddhism affect your life as a catholic? 
Khun Sujin told me to continue going to church. She said that by studying nama 
and rupa I would come to see what was most helpful in life. After a while I 
just stopped going to the church and spent all my time in Buddhist activities. 

 

What attracted you about Khun Sujin? 
She explained so clearly the realities that arise at the different doorways. 
She always reminds us “what about this moment now, what appears?” What is the 
aim of vipassana: to get something for ourselves? No, the aim is detachment 
from the self, from the beginning. Khun Sujin helps us to notice the subtle 
clinging to self. Even now, Lodewijk and I go regularly go to Thailand, to meet 
with Khun Sujin and other teachers, to discuss aspects of mind and matter. In 
October we are meeting Khun Sujin and other friends, in India, for Dhamma 
discussions. 

 

 

When you write about the development of vipassana, you don’t speak about 
concentration methods or sitting practice. 
Vipassana, insight, is actually panna (wisdom) which has been developed to 
clearly understand realities as they are, as non-self. It is not some special 
practice, it is not sitting or breathing. If one wishes to induce calm by 
sitting one still wants to get something. There is subtle clinging which can 
pass unnoticed. The aim of vipassana is to have less ignorance of realities, 
including our defilements, even subtle ones. Therefore it can and should be 
developed in daily life; any object can be an object for mindfulness and 
understanding. 

 

 

But can’t sitting quietly be an assistance for mindfulness to arise? 
Even mindfulness is anatta, non-self, it cannot be induced just by 
concentrating or trying to be calm or by sitting quietly. The conditions for 
mindfulness to arise are listening to the Buddha’s teaching, discussing, 
considering and pondering over realities. And it develops by studying realities 
as they appear in our daily lives. Some people find it difficult to accept that 
one cannot force sati to arise, and they wonder whether this means idleness. 
The Buddha taught us to develop all good qualities, such as generosity and 
metta, along with right understanding. It is understanding, actually, that 
should be emphasized. 

 

 

Nevertheless, the Buddha taught concentration practices such as 
anapanasati--breathing mindfulness. Doesn’t that suggest that they are 
important? 
We read about this in the scriptures because in the Buddha’s time there were 
people who were able to concentrate on the breath. This is a very subtle rupa, 
which is produced by citta. It is most difficult to be aware of breath, before 
one knows it one takes for breath what is something else, air produced by other 
factors, not breath. The commentary to the Kindred sayings V, The lamp, states 
that only Maha-Purisas, the great disciples can practice it in the right way. 
Thus, the Buddha did not teach that everyone should practice it. To those who 
were gifted, who had the accumulations to do so, he taught it. He explained 
that there is no self who is breathing, and that breath is only rupa. 

 

 

How should we practice vipassana? 
The situation is not: that a teacher tells you first what to do, that you 
"practise" together, that you do this, then that, at a certain time, in a 
special place. There is no rule, there is no special technique. In fact, we 
don’t use the words practising vipassana, but rather: developing understanding 
of realities little by little, and that, quite naturally, in daily life. We 
should see the advantage of understanding different realities, different 
momentary conditions, to realize that there is no "me" who is developing but 
that wisdom gradually develops. That this development can only happen if the 
right conditions are present. It can’t occur because of wanting or forcing or 
pretending to ourselves that "we" are making progress. However, understanding 
will gradually grow if there are the right conditions. It is anatta, not 
controllable by any self. 

 

 

You write exclusively within the Theravada tradition. What is your feeling 
about other Buddhist traditions? 
Khun Sujin's explanations are based on the scriptures and commentaries of the 
Theravada teaching. But we do not have to name it Theravada, that is just a 
label .We should consider whether the teaching helps us to understand whatever 
reality is appearing at this moment. That is the test of truth – this very 
moment. 

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